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8 months ago. Aug 30, 2019, 12:48 PM

Happy Friday you gorgeous people! 

I am usually the kind of woman that detests wearing underwear.. so when I do Its usually a special occasion..

or because Sir has told me to! 

Today is the latter.. 


And yes, the bedding is screwed up in the background.. My next task.. I'm on it.. promise!

1 year ago. May 15, 2019, 6:05 PM

Happy hump day you awesome people! 

Today I got Sir a present..

(we where in a car crash a few weeks ago and needed a new car so I secured the one he fell in love with today)

It got me thinking... how do I tell him?..hmmm well this got the cogs turning!

So I sent him a "gift" as seen below and said 

"This isn't the only thing that you're the proud owner of today Sir ;)"

He knew strait away..! 

This is going to be a very happy day indeed ... ;) Happy Wednesday everyone! 💗

1 year ago. Mar 8, 2019, 3:24 PM

Hi there all you bad-ass ladies.. Happy international women's day!



So here's to strong women!

May we know them.

May we be them.

May we raise them.

1 year ago. Mar 7, 2019, 3:27 PM

Thankful Thursday is here!

Today I am thankful for my strength, I am thankful that every day is an opportunity to grow stronger and I am thankful that we have a wonderful supportive community here.  

In Buddhist Thailand Thursday is considered the "Teacher's day", and it is believed that one should begin one's education on this auspicious day.. I love this and as it is quiet literally in my contract to make a conscious effort to continue learning and expanding my knowledge of BDSM I am hereby making Thursdays my day to learn. 


Of course every day is a day to learn, but you understand what i'm saying.. Thursdays will be a day to learn something with that very intention.


What are you all thankful for today? 



1 year ago. Mar 6, 2019, 9:18 PM

Excuse the title but this is exactly what this is, I am a blogging virgin so this is my very first post! 

I am a married submissive living in a 24/7 D/s Dynamic. I met my now husband in the vanilla world, we soon established that we where more compatible than we ever dreamed, he is a sadist Dominant and I am very much a masochistic submissive..  

Well, that was somewhat of an introduction.. I will leave this very short as for one, I very much just wanted to "pop the cherry" and two, I still have chores to do... Sir decided to take "Hump Day" rather literally this morning so now I have toy cleaning duty..which really should have been done this morning but shhhhh... its been a very busy day!

Happy Wednesday lovely people!