Because she smiles

Many believe the Dom/Sub relationship is about controlling your submissive.

I believe the truth is the exact opposite.

While I am able to push and test her limits, the ability to do that is granted and can be taken away by my sub / little.

She ultimately has the control and lovingly hands that control to me to be cherished, guarded and rewarded.

Never mistake where the true control resides. It will make for a more solid bond.