3 years ago. March 12, 2021 at 2:36 AM
I find that I say that a lot. I am hoping that finding Daddy means that he will take the guesswork out of my day. Lers see what's In store for me.
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Thoughts from the abyss - the story on how I find myself
35 y/o thoughts and experiences as she learns how to be the sub she's always wanted to be .
Master13(dom male){MajesticLy}
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Welcome to the cage.
Good luck on your search and go slow. Reach out to other subs for help and above all - have fun 😁
Good luck on your search and go slow. Reach out to other subs for help and above all - have fun 😁
3 years ago
Kelpi
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G slow have fun and remember those of us who have been here for decades are still learning.
3 years ago
Dom for her soul(dom male)
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Best of luck on your search. Take your time, know that you are special and the right Daddy Dom will find you
3 years ago
dollMaker(dom male)
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My advice is do not learn about the bdsm lifestyle, activities while in a dynamic. You dont need to and sadly many will sweep in to offer you that, but may well not have your best interests in mind but only theirs. Many newbies are netted by sweet talkers who are in reality not doms, but in fact predators, abusers, horny net guys, wannabes and fantasists.
You can learn all you need to learn outside of being actually active, so you can enter a dynamic with the knowledge you need to inform what you do safely. With knowledge you can spot the non desirable types that will sweep into your inbox.
Begin by reading the New Bottoming Book, reading the submissives guide website and watching their you tube channel, and Loving BDSM website and you tube channel. These will give you a lot of the foundation knowledge to keep you safe.
BDSM is very dangerous and many activities will leave someone if not applied carefully, and safely emotionally and physically hurt, life changing injuries are possible even death. Its important to have a base line of knowledge so you can spot the dangerous people and have a great fun safe time.
I would also suggest getting to know subs on here like morley, and alwaey they will be able to help you.
Welcome to the cage I hope you have a fun, safe time.
You can learn all you need to learn outside of being actually active, so you can enter a dynamic with the knowledge you need to inform what you do safely. With knowledge you can spot the non desirable types that will sweep into your inbox.
Begin by reading the New Bottoming Book, reading the submissives guide website and watching their you tube channel, and Loving BDSM website and you tube channel. These will give you a lot of the foundation knowledge to keep you safe.
BDSM is very dangerous and many activities will leave someone if not applied carefully, and safely emotionally and physically hurt, life changing injuries are possible even death. Its important to have a base line of knowledge so you can spot the dangerous people and have a great fun safe time.
I would also suggest getting to know subs on here like morley, and alwaey they will be able to help you.
Welcome to the cage I hope you have a fun, safe time.
3 years ago
Sculpther(dom male)
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Take your time, the “dynamic “ is actually a relationship. Built on trust, your submission is a gift that should never be demanded.
Trust is earned over time and as dollmaker said, this lifestyle carries with it very real risks.
Be sure you protect yourself first, once you are tied down, it is too late to find out you have made a mistake.
Trust is earned over time and as dollmaker said, this lifestyle carries with it very real risks.
Be sure you protect yourself first, once you are tied down, it is too late to find out you have made a mistake.
3 years ago