I so love my children's and I dynamic!
See I raised them soly on my own. When I say this I mean no child support, no alternating weekends, no breaks. Not to mention my family is very conservative and proper ( which of course I know how to be, but we all know that if I am on this site there is that part of me that is the complete opposite). Well now that my children are grown there is no longer that pressure of being the so called type of " good mom" from my family and my kids and I do our own thing and it's great.
All that said because my middle one just sent me a video of Jack and coke shot glasses made out off jello because they know that's mom's drink, not to mention earlier this week my roommate ( my Sir) bought my oldest a complete tattooing kit with 4 guns, 54 colors, neddles and practice pads to replace their crappy broken gun that he had.
No we definitely are not the Norman Rockwell family that I was raised to be in and so many in my family would have a heart attack, but we are who we are and I would not change it for the world.
To top it off my youngest just called asking if they could come by with my youngest grandchild because they miss seeing me and want a hug..
I am so blessed to be able to say that I am their mom!