My love hate relationship with corsets

MountaintopMaster - Ten years of lies? Ouch, that sounds painful for everyone involved. If I may ask a judgment-free question, purely for the sake of my neurodivergent curiosity: what comes next, then? Living life differently, or finding something similar, elsewhere? I ask mainly because you used the word "addiction", and I know that is indeed how it can feel to try and resist someone. I've been to AA meetings as a "supportive friend" many times, and I've heard plenty of stories. I'm left wondering, ...is it really worth it? Or is it healthier to life differently? Innumerable other hearths get broken in the process, of course, without their consent. I'm just trying to unravel one of the greatest mysteries that this type of addiction faces; and maybe the answer to this question would be helpful to all: Is it as simple as finding, and being faithful and exclusive to, such an "addicting" partner? Or, is the true addiction actually the lies and secrecy itself? I'm hoping that the answer is the former, but I fear that at least for some folks, it might be the latter, unfortunately.

littleamelia​(other female) - The addiction part was the sex. As to what comes next, I have no idea.

littleamelia​(other female) - I will probably look for an equally addicting sexual partner. Someone I can really connect with and that wants that connection instead of just wanting to fuck

MountaintopMaster - Hi Amelia, my apologies for the delayed response, I have not been on The Cage for a while.

I think it's good to keep looking, I believe that such a "healthy addiction" does exist. I for one am one such type; I have no addiction to the secrecy nor the taboo, I *only* have an addiction to the brain chemical drugs that come with sex and deep intimacy.

I've experienced partners who "just want to fuck" ...and while that can be hot and intense and satisfying, it inevitably leads to either dissatisfying boredom, or broken hearts. So, yeah. Carry on, and good luck! It's really helpful to recognize which aspects of our life and our passions are healthy and which are not, and make the conscious decision to pursue the healthy...