Adine's thoughts

CanBiWife​(dom female) - That is soooo intriguing … wanting a committed relationship combined with wanted to be objectified and used as a toy.

It makes sense to me. With the right person, I think it would be possible to have both.

Different moods and different experiences with the same Dom or Domme ?

WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male)​{CurvyB} - Why understanding boundaries is so hard.
I can only speak for myself. It would have to role play, and scheduled. For me sex has to be secondary.

Sometimes, you do things that are not in your preference, but not in violation of your nature for your partner. It is one of those things one learns. A great example was on the TV show ER. The grand daughter, has her first period , young and before her parents think possible. Well she is staying with her grandfather who dutifully goes out into a storm to get her feminine hygiene products and falls down doing so. He ends up in the ER, talking with his daughter, her mother, who is going, this can't be, and why did you do this dad. His response was basically, you do what you need to do look after your family. If he can't get his head around he may have to think more deeply about his own motivations and reasons he is not ready yet.

MDaddyForHer​(dom male) - I believe it’s possible for each person to find their match. I choose to believe. Trust. Communication. Being careful. Like two who match. Don’t give up.
I haven’t either. The obstacles.
The difficult road. Strengthen you.
Like a fire. Will temper the metal.
Best Wishes.

Grizzledoldman​(dom male) - What a great question. I think those two thoughts must coexist. How can one truly and completely submit to another if He must ask permission to claim what you have freely offered? The flip side of course is, how can you fully submit to someone you cannot trust? Who does not treat you with respect and care and dignity? Even a Dom must earn the rights he is given.