1 month ago. Saturday, February 14, 2026 at 1:20 AM
Someone said to me recently, “I've a feeling it takes a strong man to calm your soul.”
To which I replied, “I don’t need someone to calm my soul. I just need someone who can stand in their own space so that my soul can feel calm around them.”
This pretty much sums up most of my interactions. Men wanting to save me. And then realising I don’t want them to. What I want is for them to save themselves so that I can feel safe around them to soften and unfold. Does that require a strong man? Absolutely. The strongest.