I had someone recently tell me how they thought I was an awesome sub since I wasn't jealous of other women that may speak to the man I'm seeing.
It's been on my mind.
No. I am not a jealous woman. He is where He wants to be or He wouldn't be here with me. I can only control the things I am capable of in this dynamic.
I give my all. I show Him. I tell Him. He knows who I am and what I give to Him.
He is where He wants to be.
I quickly spoke up to the person about how I am.
I'm not a jealous woman but I am territorial.
Talk to the man I'm seeing all you want. Let him top you. He's fun. He's very intelligent. He's funny as hell and will make you laugh. He loves sarcasm and food porn. Homemade carrot cake and tits are some of His faves. Ask Him to tie you up!!!!!! I'm okay with that. May I watch? I find it fascinating to watch Him use his rope too.
Does it make me jealous?
No.
But you must know...
Don't mistake my kindness for weakness because I am fierce.
I am loyal.
I am brave.
I will protect my dynamic.
Because He is worth it to me.
(Cross posted on my FetLife.)
