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Joys of repetition
3 years ago. August 19, 2021 at 3:19 AM

Scarcity creates value.

The quickest way to get someone’s attention is to remove yours. When it comes to growing a woman’s attraction for you, less really is more. When a man wants to see a woman more than she wants to see him, he tends to try too hard he over pursues and forces things. This causes a loss of attraction and her to back away and test more, because she can sense he is diminished by her lower interest or lack of availability. Women love men who are stable, consistent, happy and indifferent, but grateful no matter how much or how little time they spend together. Men who understand women know that sometimes they will spend a lot of time together, and other times may spend less time together. Either way, they make the best and most productive use of their time. They make time for their women, but if their women are unavailable, they are excited to have the time to catch up on other projects.

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MidKnightSun​(dom male) - I concur
3 years ago
KissKali​(sub female) - What an interesting perspective. I read it with fascination because it is not my experience at all.
Could it be that women who are insecure or who are used to feeling unbalanced in relationships experience attraction to a man who is not that available?
I am personally turned off and lose interest in a man if I can't feel his 'hunter' energy coming towards me. It's the best! The thrill of the animal chase. And it seems to be a rare thing.
3 years ago
ButterfliesAndCuffs​(sub female)​{LJ}Verified Account - I agree that you can go too far sometimes with the pursuit especially if she’s not sure about you yet. However for the most part, if a man starts backing off his attention, I start thinking he’s pursuing someone else so my interest in him drops.
3 years ago
Marrakesh - I am only unattracted to a man that is readily available when I am unattracted to him.
When the chemistry is there, whatever the amount of time we spend together is precious.
Though I do agree for many, scarcity works.
3 years ago
Sapiosexual - First off, Thank you to those who have commented and liked my post.

Marrakesh- I can understand that. A man who is readily available, is a man who is not focused on his goals, ambitions and purpose in life.
3 years ago

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