Ive been a member of the online BDSM community for decades, back as far as when yahoo had BDSM a-go-go chatrooms. I’ve walked away from online many times, out of sheer frustration. But I would never recommend walking away to anyone searching. You just have to find a good place to look
I don’t recall how I found this place, but it’s pretty much a hidden gem that I wish more sincere people would find. It’s much easier to weed the inappropriate crap out of my mailbox here. And it’s great to be a part of intelligent conversation.
So I’ve decided to stop looking elsewhere, build a nest here, become a permanent resident of this community, and hope more like minded people will find their way. Thanks to everyone who continues to make this a pleasant community.