4 years ago. September 8, 2019 at 5:28 PM
“Submission is selfless. Your pleasure derives from my pleasure. There is a vast difference between having a kink, and being a submissive. I am NOT here to help you jerk off. I am here to build D/s relationships based on connection, trust, and shared values.”
I agree 1000%. Submission begins between the ears, not between the legs. Obviously physical attraction is necessary, but what I find attractive in a submissive is their utter acceptance of surrender and submission without question, once trust is established.