I was young 36 comfortable and in the lifestyle since the age of 18 as a Dom. at 13 I became a sub to a neighbor lady who had a thing for kids. at eighteen I left her tied to the bed for her husband to find.joined the army and when I returned sought and found a master and became his apprentice.I learned a great deal from him on how to treat a lady and how this lifestyle fit in with everyday life.
One day in July I stopped at a bar that was having a social it was filled with men and women looking to meet-up. I was standing at a rail separating the dance floor from the bar area and felt myself assaulted by a a pair of eyes from behind at the time I was very muscular from the work I was doing you see when I left the army I had two skills how to kill at long range and building things now you can make money at both but I took the safe one even thought it paid less. I bought and fixed houses to resell by this time I was doing quit well for myself and had several people working for me and employing several other companies and their people.when i turned around I could see her right away 5' 2" red hair black dress work attire instead of being embarrassed she lingered on my package the slowly looked up to my eyes. and smiled but behind that smile was a look of fear and uncertainty and I had her or she had me depending on how you look at it. I walked up to her and said lets go somewhere quieter and talk about your life and future.
Over the next several hours I learned much about her life and found this women intriguing and so a life time of love and lust was started that night it lasted 23 years until her sudden death 2 years ago come January first when she was taken from me in a car accident but even in this she had planed for my happiness. this was a lesson in itself a great sub always makes sure her Dom is first the same as a Dom makes sure their sub is provided for, in this time I learned that to be a good Dom you put your needs behind that of your sub. now on the face of that statement It sounds as though the rolls are reversed but I came to realize that the opposite is true. you see if your sub is happy you will be happy because she will work twice as hard to show you what you mean to her. from the beginning she saw that i was not a one women kind of guy and lucky for us and I say us because she was very happy with the other woman as well as me. you see Dena was my assistant for the past 3 years and unknown to me in love with me. we were very happy for three years until my bought of insanity you see Dena was killed by drunk driver along with our unborn child right in front of me. I do not handle loss well I have been told as to this day I do not remember exactly what happened I was told it took 5 men to pull me off him now i was as strong as I could be but lets be honest I'm 5'5" how strong can you be. I came back to myself two months later in the nuthouse it was proven that at the time I was mentally incapacitated.at the time of the attack and was released.
next I will list the things I learned from each of them
