These are the rules as set forth by sir James. One thing to keep firmly in mind from the moment they submit they do not have to and may leave you at any time so it is up to you to keep them in light of this these are the rules you must live buy if you can not do not try this way remember there are many ways to dominate so chose another way for the two of you no sin in not being able to do this everyone can find there own way. These are the rules the Dom/Dom-ma must follow.
1) you must set aside money for them if they leave (this is the single most important rule to fallow)
2) from the moment they submit all there debts become yours and you will pay them off as soon as possible.
3) you must provide roof,clothes(not the low end kind unless that is all you can afford) health insurance and food get them a gym membership if you can't monitor them yourself.
4) everyday you must set aside a place of safety for them then stay out of it.
5) you must set aside a minimum of 1 hour either morning or night to talk and listen to each other
6) you will set the guide lines for both punishment as well as fun but you must take her/his limits in account.
7) no one is perfect you will make mistakes own them and do not repeat them
8) show her at least 3 times before you consider punishment
9) once a week get her something she does not need but will like
10) last of the basic take her out for a fun time forget most of the rules and enjoy the spontaneity of the day
Over the next few days I will go into each of the rules so you can understand or question a fine point of the reason. If you are a Dom you may address me in private if you feel it's needed subs may ask the laddies for info or example.