At fist glance it may appear 1 and 3 are the same not to sirs way of looking at it if you were to look at it in a vanilla relationship then rule 1 is the engagement ring and rule 2 is the marriage, but in our way of looking at things rule 1 is the acceptance for training and rule 2 is the bonding.
During the training like the engagement is how the Dom and sub learn about each others want's and need's and the rules are worked out for living together and creating the dynamic for the future the face they have agreed to show the world and the face they show each other at home. this involves how the Dom expects the sub to dress act and the rules of behavior they live by. The acceptable fun and punishments to be carried out the time and places each will be performed I.E. are punishment done right away that day or should they be held for certain days of the week is spanking a punishment or foreplay or is stripping and cleaning the oven a punishment or is watching him masturbate to your naked body with out allowing to touch your self any more then is needed to help him without letting you finish your self. There are so many different ways for some one what is punishment and what is foreplay to try to list.
This is also the point where you sign the contract sir went through a lot of expense to make sure that his subs are covered legally to make sure they received exactly what he wanted them to receive at the time of signing is when sir would make sure all debts where paid so they could come into the bond as a virgin so to speak. He also created a ceremony of bonding that he would read to those attending exactly what his promise was and the sub would read in front of witnesses what there obligations are to there sir. He had his reasons for this he wanted all to know that to them this was just like a wedding. and every women in sirs case were acknowledged as a wife.
Sir James also set out what he called the reward system as anyone will admit who has interacted with the ladies will tell you in vanilla world they would be labeled slut's this included the remarkable Jane as a matter of fact between Jane and my perfect wife and sub Rita it would be a race to see who could be better at it sirs surviving ladies can't hold a candle to those two but they are young yet so time will tell. Anyway according to sir depending on just how long they could act like ladies and how well they performed in that role would count towards the reward. points were awarded according to each day and how well they did. thank you Sir John.
