In the time I have studied and then enjoyed the lifestyle there is one thing I can say about it all sub's come to it differently. All are born to it it is something in our genetic coding that make us call to it and luckily there are Dom's who will answer to that call. What is to follow is Dena's answer to the call answered buy Sir James. Dena's calling was much like many of her time she was raised to be a feminist so when it called to her she had trouble answering that call because from the outside it was a complete violation of how she was taught to be. It was not till her Dom showed her that it was possible and it was needed by some to complete them. It was part of how she was made to make her happy and not just content with her life. And most important of all it was not a matter of what her sex was it was not a mater male or female it was a part of every one and made us human and therefor unique and wanted and needed by others to complete them.
Like many Dena was gifted with a high I.Q. around 150 as a consequence of this she had problems in turning her mind off. She needed something to turn it off or like many would lose her mind. When she completed collage with a masters she came to work with her father's company and stayed when her father sold it to a much younger man her story and journey starts when she meets her boss for the first time and not recognizing and confusing the call fights it tooth and nail all the way to surrender and rebirth as a complete person. thank you Doc.