curtesy and respect
We learned at the very beginning there was a difference between the two. Curtesy is something that all people deserve from the beginning Examples of curtesy is opening a door for a woman. helping with a coat on and off escorting someone to there door. These are what all people deserve both male and female addressing someone by last name until given permission to use first name.
Respect is something you earn.
The first day I met sir James I made the mistake of calling him Sir as I had to most employers I have had, BIG MISTAKE. He stopped and informed me and told me that I may call him boss or Mr. ------- but the term sir is something I and you must earn should you ever wish to. As my employees those are the only thing I may address him as. (note: sue here I was lucky as Deb's went first.) He then followed up by calling us Miss. -------- until we asked that he call us by our first names. The first lesson in respect for him as a fighter followed and as a marksmen. As part of the test as Janes body guards.
Over the course of the next several months thanks to Jane we discovered respect for him as a human being and then ultimately as a man and and finally as our master. For us this was hard as being a lesbian couple this was hard for us to accept mentally and emotionally because of our lifestyle we found it easier to look at men as just something we had to put up with. We never said we were prefect women or humans. But because of these two remarkable people we have learned to be much better at being human and women and calling ourselves both.
I love my partner Deb's with every fiber of my being. But I also need at times the feeling of a male in me there is just a certain comfort I get from it. So yes I am bi and always have been. Deb's on the other hand has never enjoyed the feel of a man in her she had a bad contact with men when she was young so bad she does not or I should say didn't enjoy dildos even with me. so you can see gaining her trust as a man never mind a Dom took a couple of years five to be more accurate. so allow me to wright how to be honest being around this man and the men he surrounded himself with allowed us to surrender to his love.
In a way it started with the first time we met and interviewed as his bodyguards for Jane, he gave us the respect of not holding back when he fought us giving us credit that we where well trained in hand to hand combat, yes he soundly beat us but he told us afterword with a smile on his face that it was one of the hardest fights he had been in since the war. Higher praise between military people you can not expect. And when he tested us with the weapons we carried he said our speed was very good and said our accuracy just needed practice and we would have plenty of that here on the ranch as far as hand to hand he said his ranch foreman John was ex s.e.a.l. and if we wanted to train all we had to do was ask him as he teaches a class for the hands four times a month and I'm sure he would welcome the addition, and he did. through this we learned the kind of men he chose to surround himself with. cont.....
Deb's and Sue😁
