Observations from the deck of experience

MountaintopMaster - Thank you, because as I have another birthday in my 40s, I feel truly done, broken, and spent. My mistakes have piled up too high. My heart is forever belonging to too many others who are gone. It is lonely and I cannot imagine going through all of this over again.

That Berry Lover​(sub female) - I've been struggling with internalized ageism lately . I've never been afraid of 30, but when I turned 30, I started grieving something. I never realised how much I internalized the misogynistic idea that life ends at 30 for women. I have been working on unlearning it.

Then I see women who are older than me still engaged in kink and it makes my heart so happy. It heals something in me. It's generally inspirational to see people go against ridiculous standards in society.

MountaintopMaster - Having already turned both 30 and 40, myself, I can tell you, it can get way better! Yeah, I wasted my 20s, and some of my 30s. But once I found what I was looking for, and took care of my health just a bit more... None of that mattered. The regrets are completely forgotten, when you simply keep going and find new amazing things to experience. I say this as a male, and I know it's a bit different in terms of beauty standards, but still, I hope it's some encouragement.

MizBehaved​(sub female) - Thank you for sharing this! I have been thinking about this very topic and wondering if it all ends as we get older - apparently it doesn’t end as long as we don’t stop! Thanks for taking time out of your very busy sex life to post this! ❤️

ulfheart​(dom male) - After retirement, every day is Saturday. There is no reason not to take advantage of that fact. We are happy and horny, watching the DOW for our stocks and chewing the gummies to keep smiling. ?