I don’t care how long you’ve been doing this.
I don’t care if you’ve been in the lifestyle for two weeks or 40+ years.
I don’t care how old you are.
I don’t care how “well known” you are.
I don’t fucking care.
If you are making a submissive break a rule for the express purpose of punishing her for that rule break? You’re an abusive fuck.
If you make a rule that is “no cumming without permission” and then bind her mouth so she cannot beg and belabor her clit mercilessly until her body breaks and she orgasms beyond her own will, and for that, you punish her?
You are an abuser.
You are an abuser.
You are not controlling her mind. You are not bending her will. You are not a dom above doms. You are not an expert. You are not a master.
You are practicing mental and emotional abuse. You are breaking her. You are pushing beyond safety. You are pushing beyond consent.
This. Is. Abuse.
Submissives, eyes open. Ears open.
This is not complete surrender. This is not your utmost for his highest. This is your destruction for his delight.
Run.