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-DOM ISSUES 101-
We all hear all the time about protect and take good care of our submissive partner's and we constantly post and look for the red flags for what they need to look so they don't get in/on an uncomfortable situations and all that it's fantastic and nothing wrong with that all good…. I strongly believe and encourage such"campaign" ……

But what about the ones in control what about the Dom's ...who looks after them.

We all know a real Dom's it's always in control of the Relation/Dynamics because we are allowed to have it such gift was given ..
And we think we are special ..
But be aware that also can be used against us.

-We never demand we earn it.-
That's what we want to believe but sometimes we don't earn it it's just part of what they want us to believe a game bigger or what we are use to deal with.

I get a lot of emails lately for other Dom's witch they being getting on awful situation they are being manipulated they are being played they are being used because
when we open to someone we do hard we don't keep nothing to our self we give everything at once when we got to the point of trust,
But c'mon guys we all know that Extra sense the ones is telling us to don't do it ...better start listening and believing in what our brain and guts are telling us.
The true colors always show at one point or another.

So if you "submissive" always has an excuse never had the time only when it's convenient for her and she lies over and over don't confronted her just leave ...is not worth it .
And it's not because she's being bratty and she wants to be put on her place it's because you are NOT her priority and that's ok, there are many others out there that be worth it for YOU!
Be careful OUT THERE D's
4 years ago. December 8, 2019 at 2:24 PM

I don’t care how long you’ve been doing this.


I don’t care if you’ve been in the lifestyle for two weeks or 40+ years.


I don’t care how old you are.


I don’t care how “well known” you are.


I don’t fucking care.


If you are making a submissive break a rule for the express purpose of punishing her for that rule break? You’re an abusive fuck.


If you make a rule that is “no cumming without permission” and then bind her mouth so she cannot beg and belabor her clit mercilessly until her body breaks and she orgasms beyond her own will, and for that, you punish her?


You are an abuser.


You are an abuser.


You are not controlling her mind. You are not bending her will. You are not a dom above doms. You are not an expert. You are not a master.


You are practicing mental and emotional abuse. You are breaking her. You are pushing beyond safety. You are pushing beyond consent.


This. Is. Abuse.


Submissives, eyes open. Ears open.


This is not complete surrender. This is not your utmost for his highest. This is your destruction for his delight.


Run.


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