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-DOM ISSUES 101-
We all hear all the time about protect and take good care of our submissive partner's and we constantly post and look for the red flags for what they need to look so they don't get in/on an uncomfortable situations and all that it's fantastic and nothing wrong with that all good…. I strongly believe and encourage such"campaign" ……

But what about the ones in control what about the Dom's ...who looks after them.

We all know a real Dom's it's always in control of the Relation/Dynamics because we are allowed to have it such gift was given ..
And we think we are special ..
But be aware that also can be used against us.

-We never demand we earn it.-
That's what we want to believe but sometimes we don't earn it it's just part of what they want us to believe a game bigger or what we are use to deal with.

I get a lot of emails lately for other Dom's witch they being getting on awful situation they are being manipulated they are being played they are being used because
when we open to someone we do hard we don't keep nothing to our self we give everything at once when we got to the point of trust,
But c'mon guys we all know that Extra sense the ones is telling us to don't do it ...better start listening and believing in what our brain and guts are telling us.
The true colors always show at one point or another.

So if you "submissive" always has an excuse never had the time only when it's convenient for her and she lies over and over don't confronted her just leave ...is not worth it .
And it's not because she's being bratty and she wants to be put on her place it's because you are NOT her priority and that's ok, there are many others out there that be worth it for YOU!
Be careful OUT THERE D's
4 years ago. December 26, 2019 at 2:28 PM

I need it to hurt


Fuck, that hurts.


Hearing that will make my dick hard. As long as what I’m doing won’t injure her and it’s something she’s getting something positive out of, even if the only gratification for her is knowing she’s suffering for me and can see my elation, expressed clearly on my face.


I need it to hurt.


The kind of hurt that’ll make her try to break free from her bondage. The kind of hurt that will make her mind go dark and fuzzy and the only thing she’ll be able to focus on is the intense pain being violently brought upon her and the warm, glowing feeling of the endorphins flooding her system. The kind of impact from my blows that’ll leave her shaking and unable to stand on her own.


I want it to be a pain that no longer feels good, but is not overwhelming either. It’s the kind she can take, but I can see the struggle in her eyes, and my fucking god it’s a beautiful thing to see. That look of desperation, then a second later, perseverance mixed with an arousal that has her feeling slightly ashamed and vulnerable, but also comforted and safe.


It’s a moment, so complex and rich and colorful that the pain becomes something else for us both. It’s a way of creating a physically challenging moment that she’ll need my guidance to get through it and my comfort afterwards to positively process it.


I want to see her suffer, to wallow in the intensity of it all and scream out in pain, but I want it to be a moment that brings us closer together more importantly.


Because when you tear someone down to their naked truth, it’s impossible not to melt into them when their need for you is something real and genuine.


I need it to hurt, but I have good reasons for that need.


                      -Source- Innermind / Fetlife

Virginie​(sub female){lcpw} - thought that voice sounded familiar
3 years ago
Virginie​(sub female){lcpw} - i feel like this writing from Innermind needs a bit of context, and as someone who has known him, and his writings for a long time- im going to just go ahead and provide it. He is in a monogamous relationship -for years now, with a lovely woman who is on and off Fetlife as well. The things they do together they do in many roles, but yes she is a heavy bottom, and he is- well clearly a heavy Top. I wouldn't want anyone thinking that this is the kind of Impact relationship that one would just immediately find with a new person, They know each other and each other's limits very well.
To be clear my only concern hear is that without knowing the people involved- just that little bit of background- less experienced people might think the things described were okay places to go with people who were not so well known to them.
3 years ago

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