4 years ago. January 28, 2020 at 11:14 PM
For years I identified as a Dominant yet felt like a fraud because I enjoyed receiving intense sensations including pain. So many people teach that on either side of the slash there's a continuum when in reality kink identifications are more like a sphere. Yes, you can be a Dom, a sadist, and love receiving pain. These things are not mutually exclusive. There's no one true way. Be who you are!
