4 years ago. June 13, 2020 at 2:52 PM
Practicing kink has definitely improved my communication skills. When you’re negotiating a play scene with someone you need to get really specific about what you want and don’t want. Making sure both/all partners are in agreement on what is meant by each type of play minimizes the risk of doing the wrong thing. For example, what I think anal play is and what you think it is could be two very different things if I want to use my fist and you’ve only ever used a small butt plug.
This has definitely carried over into my vanilla life in both work and relationships.
How has practicing kink improved your life? Feel free to share in the comments!
