I had to meet my new primary care this week. It's always a nerve-wracking experience. I tell my doctor the truth about my lifestyle and I always worry about rejection. So far the response has always been good.
I had a BDSM emergency once. We'd done everything right and I still ended up with a hematoma in my breast from some heavy-duty biting play. I had to go in on a sick visit covered in bruises and of course the big-ass lump in my breast.
Knowing about my BDSM activity and lifestyle before something went wrong means that my doctor did not feel the need to call the police. This not only protected my Top, it kept me out of hours of “counseling” where a social worker would try to get me to admit “abuse”.
Tell your doctors what you do, kinksters. It’s the responsible and safe thing to do!
