“Read twice as much as you write” is advice frequently given to writers and authors that could easily apply to anything in life. A perfect fit in the kink department too, “Watch (or read!) twice as much as you play” would be the perfect adage. The reasons for watching two times more you do are many, here’s three.
Educate Yourself
From expressly educational content to entertainment there’s a lot you can learned. One benefit is discovering technique that can take a good scene to a higher, more phenomenal level and educational content is a good place to find those tips and tricks. Who doesn’t want to make their scenes better? Additionally, trying out new things can be fun and titillating. Learning technique will also help you discover which scenes you can safely recreate from the porn you watched. Exploring educational content helps you improve what you do, giving you and your partners a superior experience.
Get Inspired
Watching others play or reading kink stories can generate a lot of new ideas for you and your partner(s). On the Topside, well, sometimes you can develop “writers block”. Repeating the scenes you love is often delightful and fulfilling. Creating new scenes though keeps the experience from becoming predictable. Trying new things also injects a bit of “new relationship energy” into your scene hyper-sensitizing the players and elevating your experience.
Tide Yourself Over
If you find yourself without an available play partner due to relationship change, illness, or some other reason, consuming kink content by watching or reading can help fill that gap in your life. It’s difficult when you can’t do what you love. However, if you use your down time to make lists of new things you want to try and expand your knowledge of how to do those things, you’ll at least be ready with a whole new creative “toy bag” when you’re ready to play again. Best of all, watching and reading can distract you from the sadness of not having a current play partner.
So, when you find yourself in a rut, between partners, or sick capitalize on the situation and use it as an opportunity to explore the wild world of kink content. You just might make yourself a more skilled, more creative, and more desired play partner when you’re ready to return to the scene.
Next week: Kneel For Your Master