Ever since I was a little Sadie I’ve been fascinated with hypnosis, psychic abilities, mentalism, magic (both illusion and real), and the powers of the mind. No surprise then, that when I got involved in kink I’d also be delighted to discover the many ways that we can enhance our sensual experiences with our brains. The brain is, after all, the biggest sex organ in our bodies.
To be honest, for the longest time I’ve been rather shy about discussing erotic hypnosis. A lot of people around me condemned it for being manipulative. Sometimes it’s really hard to tell the boundaries of honest concern, kink shaming, and ignorance, and I stayed silent. I’ve done a lot of shadow work/personal growth and I don’t let kink shaming bother me as much (no one’s perfect!) and if I discover ignorance, I do my best to educate. And honest concern is always welcome.
I’ve studied hypnosis nearly all my life informally, and received a certificate for formal study in 2019. I continue my study and practice and I love it. In becoming more vocal about hypno-kink I created a YouTube channel for it and have over a thousand subscribers.
So, What Can It Do For You?
With hypnotic techniques you can sensitize the skin of your partner. Like running your fingers over the skin or switching from cool to warm items, the words you whisper into your partner’s ear can help focus their attention on their skin, intensifying the effects of whatever type of play you’re doing. With additional skill you can increase and decrease the amount of sensation that they feel.
Another thing you can do with erotic hypnosis is deepen your partner’s feeling of submission. As a Top or Domme using self-hypnosis you can deepen your feelings of both confidence and dominance. Imagine taking yourself and your partner to a scene where you can both feel unquestionably in your moment, and return safely to reality at the end of the scene. Pure bliss!
Like the world of BDSM itself, hypnosis can give you the permission you need to release your inhibitions - things that hold you back from enjoying the play you truly want to enjoy. Releasing you from feelings of shame. Because ultimately, there is no shame in what it is that we do, the way we play. So, enjoy yourself, and use every tool you can to enhance that pleasure!
Have you tried erotic hypnosis? Let me know in the comments.
If you want to learn more about how to use erotic hypnosis in your own scenes join me for the Hypno Kink 101 Online Class listed in TheCage event listings.