A Recovering Pick-me

Thank you fluffypoppet for this challenge:

We all love a good challenge... let's make this one educational. 

What are red flags and green flags you look for in Doms? 

Green Flags: 

Holding space for the other person to share their feelings

Honest and clear communication

Red Flags: ? 

Calling yourself an alpha male/alpha Dom, not letting the other person share their feelings openly

But... YOUR TURN... what are red flags and green flags you see in Doms?