Letters from the Edge of Tolerance

What do you guys prefer a sensual dom, daddy dom, or a s/m dom?

I had a great weekend and i hope that all you guys did as well. had a nice and lovely date, and BBQed on monday. 

Good morning everyone to have just woke up and a good evening/night to those who are getting ready for bed.

i want to have a bit of a discussion with whoever want to chime in. 

What characteristics are important in a good partner, specifically to make things work out. 

i want to throw a shout out to all the red heads. Mainly because I don't know why but i find red hair sexy as hell, and add blue or green eyes, then you can steal me away. call it an obsession, but i thinks its more a fascination that leads me to infatuation.

Tell me who likes a man in uniform, sorry this picture of me (left) is four years old. right after i had finished basic training, i was standing there with my drill sergeant.

     Call me picky or whatever, but i am certain a sub that fits my fantasies is out there and i will find her someday, if you seem to think it matches you and you would like to chat just hit me up.

     So to start i have been in the world of BDSM for about Eight years now and  since my release from my loving mistress, Mistress Denalia, i have been almost adamantly a dom, though i have been a switch for a long time i prefer being a dom. so for about 5 years no i have been almost strictly a dom. 

   so my Ideal sub is definitely specific i will start by listing the qualities i find attractive, starting with the most important to the least. but do not get me wrong having all of them is definitely what i want. 

Personality: this one is by far my largest turn on to anyone. if you want to impress me be yourself, if you have a great, bubbly, slightly emotional, slightly reliant, but head strong type of personality, that drives me wild.

Intellect: no don't misinterpret this i not someone who desires someone who has an insane amount of knowledge.  for a slight comparison ill will give you this tidbit. Intellect is the faculty of reasoning and objective understanding. Intelligence is the ability to acquire knowledge and skills. i want someone who i can have a very enticing conversation with. bonus points if you can get me going on the topic of a Utopian society.

Looks: now i know this is a painful one to alot of people but hear me out.i grew up in a family with a long history of obesity, i never fit in because i really wasn't fat ever. I always worked out and took care of myself, and no offense but in my opinion, but there is no excuse to be fat. I tell my brother this regularly and it has encouraged him to start losing weight. so DO NOT get me wrong, i will talk to anyone no matter weight age, race, whatever. but i cant find my self being romantically attracted to anyone who is obese.

willingness to learn: i don't mean just in sessions and experimenting, i mean if they have a desire to learn something i want them to do what it takes to learn it, the only thing that holds us back is lazyness and there is no excuse for it.

Bratty: now i don't want someone who is nothing but a brat constantly, there is always a time and place for it, but a girl who knows when to be bratty and when not to be is sexy, and one who knows how to be a good kind of bratty is even better.

Now i am going to point out a fantasy i have had for years but no one has every done it for me yet. Ive always wanted a sub to be one her knees a few feet from my front door, wearing Lingerie/teddy/something straight up see through and sexy, with a ice cold unopened beer in her hand. and when i walk in the door she looks up at me with out moving her head offers me the beer, and says welcome home daddy/ master/ sir. That has been something i have always wanted. 
now i covered more or less what i seek in a sub so if you have questions are remarks, keep em positive and respond, voice any concerns you might have, i don't bite, hard anyways.