UmbraDominus

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UMBRA DOMINUS
Dominator of Shadows
(Latin Origin)

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About Me
I’m a paradoxical individual with views that may seem contradictory at first glance but align when examined closely. Born in 1993, I sit in the unique overlap between Gen X and Gen Z. My life has had its share of struggles, but I focus on the beauty of the present rather than dwelling on the past.

Personal Background
- Hometown: Born and raised primarily in Belton, Texas.
- If I call you "doll," "darling," or "sweetheart," it’s out of respect and habit, not endearment.
- Morals and Beliefs:
- I hold old-fashioned values, such as men providing for the household while women manage the home.
- Respect is a two-way street, and I firmly believe it should be mutual.

Personality
- Humor: Dark and offensive, courtesy of my time in the Army.
- Communication Style: Blunt and straightforward, often to the point of discomfort.
- Coping Mechanisms:
- F***ed-up humor and a generally abrasive demeanor help me navigate life.
- I’m a nihilistic realist: "Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst."

Quirks and Challenges
- ADHD, OCD, Autism (not on the spectrum), and Dyslexia shape how I think and communicate.
- My thoughts often outpace my ability to articulate them, so patience is appreciated.

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Hobbies and Interests
- Outdoors: Hunting, fishing, camping, and exploring the wild.
- At Home: Books, games, mechanics, and the occasional fire or explosive experiment.
- Spirituality:
- I’m a Norse/Celtic Pagan Druid who worships three gods and maintains an altar in my room.
- I don’t celebrate Christian holidays but respect all religions and expect the same courtesy in return.

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Social Dynamics
- I’m a "shit-talker"—I’ll say both the good and bad things about you to your face.
- I value intellectual conversations and identify as sapiosexual.
- I’m kind and willing to help strangers, but I’m no fool—I can sense genuine need.

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Quick Takes
1. How’s your day?
"I exist without my consent."
2. What’s up?
"Hard d***s and airplanes—the plane crashes. Which one are you riding?"
3. Why are you such an asshole?
"It’s a coping mechanism. Between humor and being a dick, it’s what keeps me going."

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Key Traits
- Homebody & Outdoorsman: Equally content staying in or exploring nature.
- Respectful & Kind: Everyone deserves respect, but I require a valid reason to badmouth someone.
- Blunt & Honest: I often speak without filtering my thoughts, but my actions are deliberate.

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BDSTest.org Results
- 100% Brat Tamer, Daddy/Mommy
- 97% Owner
- 94% Master/Mistress, Experimentalist
- 89% Dominant
- 87% Rigger
- 64% Primal (Hunter)
- 60% Ageplayer
- 55% Sadist
- 53% Non-monogamist
- 51% Masochist
- Other results available upon request.

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Feel free to message me if you’ve made it this far. Don’t worry—I don’t bite (hard).

Bondage
I have a profound appreciation for Shibari, both as an art form and a means of connection. The intricate patterns and the trust involved in tying up a submissive create a deeply fulfilling experience for me. Bondage isn’t just about restraint—it’s about crafting a shared moment of vulnerability and beauty.

Discipline
Discipline, for me, is more about guidance than strict enforcement. I lean towards being a soft Dom, preferring sensuality and nurturing over harshness. As long as my submissive follows instructions, there’s rarely a need for sternness. My approach is rooted in mutual respect and understanding, ensuring that both of us feel safe and valued.

My Journey
My introduction to BDSM began at 16 under the mentorship of a Mistress from the Leather Guard. Starting as a submissive was invaluable—it taught me the foundations of trust, communication, and emotional depth within BDSM dynamics.
- Over time, I transitioned into a Dominant role, but I remain discerning about submission.
- For me, submission is a privilege that must be earned, reserved for those who inspire my trust and respect.

What I Seek in a Submissive
I’m drawn to submissives who embody:
- Traits: Cute, attentive, obedient, and engaging.
- Dynamic: Someone who listens well, follows commands, and contributes to building a strong, intimate connection.

Scenes and Play
I thrive on creating immersive and intimate experiences in my scenes. Whether playful or intense, I ensure every moment is meaningful and fulfilling for both of us. Here’s how a scene might unfold:
1. You act out, pushing my buttons like the brat you are.
2. I respond with a commanding presence—pinning you against the wall, my gaze firm and unyielding.
3. From there, I take control: guiding you to the room, tying you up, and delivering the discipline you’ve earned.
4. Discipline can range from playful spanking to a deeply immersive scene lasting hours.

And of course, no scene is complete without aftercare—a crucial element that ensures comfort, connection, and emotional well-being for us both.

Water sports scat Degradation Extreme pain Blood letting

Life is here why not move forward and hope for the best?

Nov 3, 2019