Kindness

The power of true empathy is its ability to give us a fresh understanding of the other person's emotions and thoughts to illuminate an aspect of their experience that would not have been apparent to us had we not stepped into their shoes.

When is it a good time to practice Empathy?

1. Whenever we seek to understand someone better.

2. When we find ourselves arguing unproductively with a spouse or a significant other.

3. When we have trouble connecting emotionally to the plight of a loved one.

4. When we want to calm our tempers and manage our emotions.

5. When figuring out how best to complain effectively.

Empathy comes more naturally to some than it does to others. However, by taking time to truly paint a picture of what it is like for the other person and imagine ourselves in their place, we will gain valuable insights and forge deeper connections to those around us.

Copied from Psychology Today

I arrive on schedule and walk outside of the airport looking for you. You said you would be standing outside by the taxi's. The sun was so bright I was blinded at first so I shielded my eyes and scanned the traffic lanes.

Then I saw you and my heart stops, it is hard to breath, I feel weak. You see my distress and my overwhelming desire.  We have never met in real time but I am your submissive and have been for sometime now. You come to me and gather me into the safety of your arms. You lean in to kiss me and I respond instantly to your strong embrace.

You whisper in my ear "You have come so far to please me, I will take care of you my love." I relax and you feel my nipples harden under the shear material of my blouse.

"Now my dear we must go because I am crazy with desire to have you! Walk in front of me so I can look  upon you," you instruct me.

I have dressed as you have asked.  I have on a thin blouse with no bra, a short but tasteful skirt, no panties.  You can not tell by looking but this was your command and you know that I have obeyed you. I have on flats so that you tower over me and are somewhat intimidating. I walk forward with confidence and you admire the natural swing of my hips, the curve of the small of my back and very fit, trim thighs.

Once inside the taxi we settle into a little small talk about the flight and today's weather prediction.  I have been obiedent to this point but you can tell I am nervous because I keep shifting in my seat. You motion for me to lay over your lap. I hesitate and look at the driver, I think you can't be serious and give a nervous look but you are not kidding and again motion for me to lay over your knee.

I am so embarrassed but quickly comply, quickly you lift my skirt to reveal my bare bottom which causes me to blush and the pink blush covers my entire body. I begin to wiggle and squirm. I look up again to see the driver stealing glances in the mirror, following my glance you notice him looking too and you bark at him in your most stern voice for him to keep his eyes on the road! It excites me to hear your commanding tone.

You start to softly caress the soft skin of my bottom, then you spread my legs slightly to test to see if I am wet and find me very lubricated.  "I am going to spank you my darling because you have been naughty. You should  never be nervous when you are with me," you said before you brought your hand down with a quick hard smack. I am so surprised that I arch up with a squeal. Then you give me 4 more in the same spot which sting and cause the skin to welt with finger marks. I am resigned by the 4th strike and you are impressed with my ability to take a good hard spanking. When you delivery the last smack I thank you. I am now calm and subdued so you bring my skirt back down and pat my sore bottom turning me in your lap.

"I know your journey has been long and you are tired so when we are at my house you will kneel before me and take my cock in your mouth to bring me to my climax then we will sleep . Tomorrow we will explore our long awaited fantasies.

Winter snow and mistletoe,
Help make the season kinky!
Hands bound tight all through the night
Till they are nice and pinky!

You come to me just to see,
if I am excited.
I see the grin, you will begin
because you have decided!

My bottoms bare, you take some care,
To move me to that place.
Then it begins our little sin, you bind me to the chase.

The room is dim the lights are low,
Your beautiful cock begins to grow.
You bend me, move me this way and that,
You have caught me in your lovely trap!

We move and grind for sometime, till you feel the spasm.
I beg and plead may I achieve, is all that I can say!
You may cum my little one,
then we both orgasm!

We love Christmas, yes we do,
That special time of year.
‎When we can love and play all day, until the day is through.

So now theres only this to say,
It is our wish to you,
that you will know true peace this day an in the year thats new!

From Tslave and her Master!

I am not yours,

You are not mine.

I hear this almost every time,

You bend me mold me,

Make me wait!

That is the part in which I hate!

My mind goes crazy with the thought, 

When will I see you,  my mind is caught!

And then it happens,

I see the light,

I see your name,

We play the game.

Time goes by we chat and play

and then you say you can not stay.

You are so fun,

You are my muse.

I know that I must never lose.

The friend I made,

When I meet you!

I was in the car with my Master going home from work. This was one of those times where silence was required. Master sets this scenario by turning off the radio and giving me a certain look.

I know the rule and do not initiate conversation. When Master says something or ask a question I am to give a response only relating to the topic he has opened for discussion. 

Today I sat quietly watching the country side go by and became aware of the fact that I was actually being hurled through space and time at 60 miles an hour. My imagination took over and I became sexually stimulated by the forward propulsion of the cars acceleration then braking, then acceleration again. 

Master looked at me after awhile and began to laugh. He said, "Little One only you can look so sexy and excited just riding in a car." My response was , "Master it is not just a car but a time machine. I am excited because you take me speeding through space!

Some of the most serious and intense dominants love to laugh and play with their submissive partners. That’s human psychology 101, people want to be happy and have fun.

I happen to be one of the lucky ones! My Master was the class clown and he tells me everyday that he loves to make me laugh!

At play time the other evening Master demonstrated how much fun laughter can be.

I was blindfolded which ignites my sense of hearing. Then the first thing I heard was the sound of the bullet vibrator.  I began to giggle and squirm knowing that I will be touched, but where?  Then my darling tickled every inch of my body from my nose to my toes. I tried very hard not to laugh because I am not allowed to be loud! But I could not hold back. We laughed till we cried!

By the end of our play we laid together entwined in rapture still giggling and content.

I am asked everyday why I have been with my Master for so long and the only answer I can give is because even after 45 years we still have fun !

Before you say something, stop and think how you would feel if someone said it to you!

 Master was coming into the house from an errand so I hide around the corner to surprise him.

He jumped with surprise and we hugged and laughed, then he bite my shoulder and whispered that he hoped I found his fright amusing later when I was blindfolded! 

We were at the lake house,
On a warm Autumn day,
You were hoping to chase my blues away.

We were raking the leaves into the bin,
Then the wind picked up the rain moved in,
You grabbed my hand, you covered my head,
I'm safe in your arms as it has forever been.

You shelter me like you always do,
Thats why nothing else matters,
but me and you!

We play the game of cat and mouse,
You know you'll have your way.
We chat and play all through the day,
Then its time and I must pay!

You play me like a well stretched drum, and when you strum a well stretched drum you know we both will have to cum!

And even though the cat wins the day the mouse will always simply say.

I am the food that feeds the cat and gives him fun all day. But in the end I know I win because he loves me this way.