Kitten came up to me a while ago. She was still new to the lifestyle then and seemed a little annoyed.
Calling me by my first name she asked,"Why do I always have to be the submissive? Why do you get to be in control?"
I just smiled and said," Ok Kitten, dominate me."
She was surprised. I guess she expected some long lecture or an angry retort.
After thinking for a second she said in her best commanding voice,"Get on your knees in front of me."
I just smiled and said,"No. Try again."
I could see that see was a little confused but she quickly turned around, went to the bed room and returned with my belt.
She said,"Get on your knees in front of me NOW or a will punish you!"
Again I replied with a smile,"No. Try Harder."
She made a motion to hit me with the belt but in a moment I had stood up and taken it from her.
She stood there a little frustrated. She asked me,"How do I make you Submit to me?"
"You can't", I replied.
"Why not?"
"Because it is something someone has to give you. That is why its so precious kitten. I am not in control. You are. You can take away your consent at anytime. I can only do what you allow me to do"
I could see the realisation sink in. She was smiling again.
"So why do I allow you to do all these things to me then?", she asked giggling.
I gave her a little kiss and replied,"Because you want to make me happy."