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Kinking It Real

So this blog is going to be about my experience as submissive as well as the emotions that come with it. I will begin writing more about my Domme tendencies as I discover that side of myself more. Not only will it be about my head spaces but what I think of the lifestyle and how I live it. Not only that, but I’d like to create a blog where someone can read each post maybe feel less confused...or just little tidbits to enjoy.
5 years ago. Wednesday, November 18, 2020 at 7:38 PM

It seems my day is filled with fake Doms today. However I felt the need to create another post for this one. See the problem is the fact that this Dom can’t seem to understand when I say no. It’s merely an age thing. I don’t care how experienced you are, if you fall past the age limit that I have for myself I will not consider you as a Dom simply because the age gap is startling for me and uncomfortable. I’ve blocked this user but ladies and gentleman if you receive a message like this one don’t hesitate to block. If they don’t get it the first couple times you say no they won’t ever get it. It’s like an incessant need they have to try to show ownership simply cuz they are “Doms”. Beware of these Doms they’re just as fake as the ones who label you disrespectful because you rejected them. I’ll be taking down the screenshots so as not to have my blog reported but I still stand where I stand

5 years ago. Wednesday, November 18, 2020 at 6:39 PM

I thought that I would be able to keep this blog free of the main problem I’m starting to see: fake Doms and red flags. I have recently encountered what I think might be a fake Dom. See I had received a message that stated, and I quote, “I can’t wait to win you.” I don’t know about others but for me, upon receiving a message I prefer one where I’m greeted nicely, even though I’m a submissive, I want to be acknowledged as a person first. Second the lack of greeting or any information about yourself or even a question regarding something on my profile let’s me know you aren’t wanting to get to know me, if so I’m not sure by statements like the one above. Third, upon visiting his profile there was a significant lack of information on him as a person, as a Dom, and what his kinks and limits generally were. I did notice however that he wants more than one sub. I’m greedy and don’t like sharing so when messaging back I made it clear where I stand. Below I will post a pic of my message I sent. He had replied to that message by calling me disrespectful and stating he wouldn’t want me....yet had said he wanted to own me. I urge all submissives to be wary of Doms like him. They most likely only want one thing. In the comment section I’d like for all, both Doms and subs, to please tell me if my message was truly disrespectful. 

5 years ago. Wednesday, November 4, 2020 at 4:04 PM

I know I’m not as pretty as other girls....Usually I’m happy with who I am. I can love myself with no problem. Lately....it’s been scary. I can feel my resolve cracking. I look around and it seems all the subs....no women.... who are good girls and desirable are skinny, not colored, short.....beautiful. Next to them I feel average, maybe pretty. Who would choose daisies over roses. Yeah, I’ve been cheated on(just like the picture says) they all were girls that were shorter, long hair, skinny.....white. The opposite of me. So I’ve been doubting myself. I don’t have a daddy that can put me back together if I fall apart so this....this is scary. Scary to the point where even in little space I don’t feel like a genuine little

5 years ago. Wednesday, November 4, 2020 at 2:59 PM

I’ve been very sad and irritable lately. I’ve been wanting to experience the touch of a partner again. I’ve been itching to hear sweet nothings in my ear, soft growls from my Daddy as he commands me. I need the reassurance that only a daddy can give to his babygirl. I’m going mad with the need to be totally and completely devoured by a delicious Dom. I’m longing for it

5 years ago. Sunday, October 25, 2020 at 9:18 PM

Lately I’ve been feeling lonely. I’m an attention whore and love getting attention but lately I’ve been by myself. I’ve been wishing to have someone I can turn to. I’m eager for a Daddy, hearing him say good girl. I’m eager to be able to please someone again.... I’m wishing on a star that I find a Daddy soon.

5 years ago. Tuesday, October 20, 2020 at 12:56 AM

5 years ago. Tuesday, October 20, 2020 at 12:48 AM

First let me state this: I AM PICKY

I want a DaddyDom.

I want a fit if not averagely healthy Daddy.

I want a strict caring daddy. 
the following will be pictures of what I envision my daddy to be like: ABS, sexy, intense

 

 

5 years ago. Monday, October 19, 2020 at 11:49 PM

To break or not to break that is the question. I love and hate rules as much as the next little. I love having the structure and being cared about. As a certified brat, I also love breaking those rules. But here are some ideas for couples who can’t think of any. 

5 years ago. Monday, October 19, 2020 at 11:46 PM

It might just be me but I like these

5 years ago. Monday, October 19, 2020 at 11:08 PM

I’ve come to notice that a lot of the littles in this list don’t feel like they are real littles. I’m here to let you know I’m a horror loving, lip biting, tattoo/piercing having, black wearing, alternative little. I’m tall and thick as hell. NONE OF THAT MATTERS. I also still love being called cute names, being coddled and even pink and glitter and baby talk. All littles are valid!!!