girlyGoddess

switch female

23

Single

I'm a little and bratty with a highly submissive personality. I love cuddles and being tied up. I want to explore the world of bdsm more, expanding my experiences and maybe pain tolerance.  4 years of knowledge and 3 years experience about this lifestyle.

On my submissive standpoint, I enjoy being with a strong yet gentle man. Someone quiet in Their confidence and sure in Their dominance. They will need to be comfortable that I am a switch, and know that with the right guidance and words, touches I’m putty in Their hands and don’t need to be forced to submit. I’ve done a lot of reading and learning and know that I still have more to do and am eager to do and learn so much more. I want someone just as eager. I’m not really suited for the slave and 1950s house wife style just because I know that I am very independent -I want to build an empire but not for myself, to have something to give back to my partner, which is not typical of this role-  and stubborn at times. In truth it’s something I’m working on. Simply put though I know I’m not fit for it. I enjoy lots of attention, and am beginning to be realistic as I gain more hours in the work force my self and realize I cannot talk with my partner whenever I feel like, bit of an attention whore. I enjoy phone conversations, long texting, and when in the mood, sexting ?…but anyway. All in all. I’m a completely submissive person when that switch is flipped, and am eager to serve.

Now when the switch is flipped the other way… it’s a different story. I like that satisfied feeling I get when caring for something. Watching someone achieve goals or even just reaching a new pain threshold is satisfying to talk about. I enjoy learning about people, asking why. When I’m in the mood, I just get this feeling, like a throbbing in my chest. It’s a need to see someone just…beneath me. That sounds so sadistic to say, which in truth I am a bit. But I don’t mean it that way. What I mean is, I feel content when I have a sweet little submissive to pet and care for; it brings me joy. I honestly enjoy male submissives but I do not mind other genders typically. I prefer, for both male and female submissives someone feminine, males not too feminine, but definitely no bulky muscled bears or hairy men please. I like that smooth feeling and look. I typically enjoy to many kinks to try and list them all I’m sorry. If we happen to talk, don’t forget to ask for specifics if your curious. 
On the flip side I have recently discovered that one of my alters, Lilith, is into BDSM and has been for a while. I want to build a solid foundation in which it lasts a long time if not forever. I want to form a genuine dynamic, not role play, not hookup, and no online. Of course in the beginning it’ll be more online as we speak and get to know eachother but eventually I’d like to have visits and overnight stays. I enjoy gaming, mostly any games as well. I have about 77+ games on my ps4 and want more.
My hobbies outside of kink: I  enjoy reading very much and writing too. Music is also a big hobby of mine, I love singing and listening to it. You might also be able to catch me sketching or doodling sometimes, at times coloring too. I love arts and crafts projects. Relaxing at home with a movie is literally like the best thing ever. I love horrors and action, but comedy, romances, dramas, and animations too. Really I enjoy every genre. I do love anime yes, for those wondering. Could watch it all day. I love cooking and could have fun cleaning as long as there’s music. I’m a college student studying, restaurant management andddd….well that’s all I feel I need to share. 

The more I suppress my urges the worse it gets. The urge to dominate break down and rebuild is welling up.

From a submissive point of view when approaching me don’t be crude, rude, rash, harsh, or gross. Just cus I have a subservient side does not mean I’ll just submit to a disrespectful self entitled prick.

From a Dommes point of view, as a kind dominant my patience is infinite but I will not stand for any rudeness or grossness here either. Address me properly. Even as a switch my Dom side has the desire to be properly recognized

Listed below is a list of my kinks:
Exhibitionist
Rope bunny
Orgasm denial
Forced orgasm
Consent/nonconsent play
Power exchange
Light degradation/humiliation
Light s/m
Generic hair pulling, choking, spanking

Listed below are things I'm willing to try:
Intermediate s/m play
Anal
Hypnosis
Light shock play 

Overall Results for blended personalities. I noticed sometimes I have more than one alter in the drivers seat of my mind so I took the test just now as a blended personality 

Results bdsm test 2022
100% Sadist
100% Rope bunny
100% Boy/Girl
100% Rigger
100% Switch
100% Owner
100% Daddy/Mommy
100% Degrader
97% Brat
95% Degradee
94% Submissive
93% Dominant
93% Voyeur
93% Brat tamer
92% Pet
91% Masochist
88% Primal (Prey)
86% Primal (Hunter)
86% Ageplayer
85% Master/Mistress
81% Exhibitionist
81% Slave
78% Experimentalist
29% Vanilla
14% Non-monogamist

Listed below are my kink results: (Babygirl) 
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Brat
100% Rope bunny
100% Boy/Girl
97% Submissive
94% Slave
91% Voyeur
79% Masochist
79% Degradee
75% Ageplayer
75% Pet
72% Exhibitionist
70% Primal (Prey)
55% Non-monogamist
42% Sadist
31% Switch
25% Vanilla
24% Experimentalist
23% Dominant
16% Daddy/Mommy
7% Brat tamer
7% Owner
6% Primal (Hunter)
5% Rigger
4% Master/Mistress
3% Degrader

Lilith’s Results
100% Rigger
100% Daddy/Mommy
100% Sadist
98% Dominant
97% Master/Mistress
97% Owner
96% Primal (Hunter)
96% Degrader
93% Brat tamer
92% Voyeur
91% Switch
87% Masochist
80% Exhibitionist
66% Experimentalist
54% Ageplayer (got confused on these questions but as a little there will be a bit of ageplay)
38% Degradee
38% Pet
32% Submissive
31% Primal (Prey)
26% Boy/Girl
23% Slave
18% Rope bunny
14% Non-monogamist
6% Brat

Listed below are hard limits:
Blood
Scat/pee
Knife play
Needles
Branding
Excessive pet play I.e eating pet food, sleeping in cage Gaping
Anyone above the age of 35 (exceptions can be made if I feel like I might benefit as a sub by breaking this boundary but the complete cut off age is 40)

Dominance is something that all but one alter my have in common, I’m sure you all can guess which. I find that dominance and caring for something are simply just pleasant as a whole experience. I’ve missed the community

I created a blog I have DID and three alters: me-the main alter and sub, babygirl- brat and little, Lilith- mommy and Domme

Retaking the BDSM test (as Tay) 
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Degradee
100% Rope bunny
99% Submissive
96% Slave
94% Boy/Girl
91% Masochist
89% Pet
88% Primal (Prey)
83% Brat
74% Voyeur
64% Experimentalist
62% Ageplayer
59% Exhibitionist
54% Switch
30% Non-monogamist
25% Vanilla
20% Dominant
20% Primal (Hunter)
16% Master/Mistress
14% Daddy/Mommy
14% Rigger
14% Owner
13% Degrader
12% Sadist
10% Brat tamer

Seems even though Babygirl is the little out of all my alters, I’m still a bit childish lol.

May 26, 2024

Nov 21, 2019