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If nothing was " Taboo" would kinky sex be lame???

7 years ago. July 7, 2016 at 5:32 PM

I have heard many claim that if all of a sudden the world let go of their religious fears or oppressive judgment of all forms of sexuality, or if nothing seemed to shock or disgust non-kinky people anymore, that kinky sex would lose it's appeal and rush.

The idea that what makes something "kinky" in part is BECAUSE of the fact that it is socially unacceptable, or shocking/offensive to those who we consider weak minded sexually.

The rebellion against our conservative upbringing and the thrill of sexual independence in spite of how bad we were told it was, actually makes us more aroused every time we do it.

Is this true for you??
Perverted Podcast wants to know and explore this conversation!!!

From my point of view...which is of course the correct god-like answer...I say YES...and....ummmm...NO!! lol

This is not just about sex.
It's about identity and how we wish to view ourselves sexually.
I love being a sex rebel.
It feeds my confidence and identity as someone who, "doesn't follow the norm" which makes me feel special, and I apparently have a strong psychological need to feel special and different.

For me...I would admit that certain role play scenarios like religious play or age play are enhanced by societies lack of acceptance for being aroused by such things.

But...on a intimate level...I think in the moment of being sexual with someone...I'm going to love biting and ripping at her flesh even if the world is ok with it.
I'm going to love flogging her, lighting her on fire, zzzzaping her and ALL her damn friends with my violet wand.
And of course, I'm still gonna love putting things in her butt!

I wonder if the people that believe that sex would become lame if the world accepted kinks are avoiding sharing their knowledge of safer sane and consensual kink with the world because they are afraid of their own kink losing it's edge.

I personally would trade a few role plays losing their flavor in order to stop people from losing their jobs over being kinky...and I also know that even if everybody thinks my kinks are ok...my sex is still amazingly fucking hot!!
With or without your approval.

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Boogie

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Cage Monkey(staff) - Oh, Fascinating topic! I think that some submissives find it exciting to play the role of freaks and get this funny kind of reaction from the surrounding - "OMG, this man is taking so much humiliation and is happy about it, what a loser". So if everybody is tolerant saying "Oh yeah, we shouldn't be judgemental and accept all fantasies that people have because these are just fantasies right?" it ruins the fun a little bit. Or playing within a BDSM club where there's more acceptance - somehow ruins the excitement that comes from the genuine feeling that someone sees you and see you're pathetic. That's one aspect...

7 years ago

Katey - I prefer a private sex life. So for me it makes no difference what people in society think. I do not set out to disturb people, though there are aspects of knowing that I am not the only one that do give me comfort and self acceptance. Then there are things that I don't share even here that I eroticize that I think would be socially disturbing to many. I am familiar with many people who like to shock an audience and put on a show, it's just not part of my kink.

6 years ago

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If nothing was " Taboo" would kinky sex be lame???