Hello everyone,
Let's talk about the two "F"s...Friendship vs Fucking. Some people enter into a relationship with one of these two Fs in mind. Either you want to take the time and get to know people first. To create a Friendship or you fake like you give a shit just to have a quick fuck. In our search for a playmate we have discovered there are more of the latter than the first. Our intention is to form a bond and trust. That is important in any D/s relationship. If you don't then that's how things get out of hand and either people get hurt, physically and mentally. Possibly they are so willing to please the Dom that they do things that they really don't want to do and have such a bad experience that it scares them for life. It's important to have compatibility over chemistry. Some people enter a relationship with the mindset they just want to try it out get a quick fuck or suck and move on. Anyone that reads my profile knows the first sentence says honesty is the best policy. Don't waste my time or other people's time if you read their ad or profile and know what they are looking for but you feel you can push your own agenda to get what you want and bounce or ghost someone. In a vanilla relationship I am no cheap trick. Definitely not one in my D/s lifestyle either. Let's be kind and respectful to one another's feeling and desires. There are plenty of people out looking for the quick first time experience. Sex without personalization. We are just not the ones.
