Hello Indigo Fam,
You all know how I love to share. I am very glad my Dom has no issues with me exposing intimate experiences with you all. So today I would like to talk about "the thin line". There is a thin line between love and hate, pleasure and pain, love and lust. We all have experience one of these if not all three. I want to concentrate on pleasure and pain today. My Dom and I were in session last week when I was a naughty girl and didn't ask for permission to cum. He he promptly spanked my ass in mid stroke. Once that round was over he turned me on my stomach and spanked me again for the infraction. My ass was stinging. My Dom is VERY primal. I know he would never intentionally hurt me in anger, but he can get aggressive in the heat of the moment. I know there is going to a level of pain involved with being punished. I didn't use my safe word because I love when it excites him. Big mistake on my part. We talked later about the session and he asked if he hurt me. I didn't want to lie so I said nothing....another big mistake. He was very upset with me. He said his intentions are to never hurt me in a way that would be uncomfortable for me. That if he is going too far to use my safe word. So the questions of the day are subs: have you ever not used a safe word so you would not interrupt your Dom's pleasure? Doms: how important is it not to go overboard with a punishment?
You know we both love your feedback 😊
Peace
Indigo