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Indigo Blue

This blog is about being true to who we are in the lifestyle we have chosen to live. I will encourage, entertain, and delight you all with poems, erotic stories, and personal experiences with me and My Dom Latinobrusier(Beast). Thank you all that follow me. You are my Indigo Fam.
3 years ago. January 14, 2021 at 1:18 AM

Hello Indigo Fam,

 

   You all know how I love to share. I am very glad my Dom has no issues with me exposing intimate experiences with you all. So today I would like to talk about "the thin line". There is a thin line between love and hate, pleasure and pain, love and lust. We all have experience one of these if not all three. I want to concentrate on pleasure and pain today. My Dom and I were in session last week when I was a naughty girl and didn't ask for permission to cum. He he promptly spanked my ass in mid stroke. Once that round was over he turned me on my stomach and spanked me again for the infraction. My ass was stinging. My Dom is VERY primal. I know he would never intentionally hurt me in anger, but he can get aggressive in the heat of the moment. I know there is going to a level of pain involved with being punished. I didn't use my safe word because I love when it excites him. Big mistake on my part. We talked later about the session and he asked if he hurt me. I didn't want to lie so I said nothing....another big mistake. He was very upset with me. He said his intentions are to never hurt me in a way that would be uncomfortable for me. That if he is going too far to use my safe word. So the questions of the day are subs: have you ever not used a safe word so you would not interrupt your Dom's pleasure? Doms: how important is it not to go overboard with a punishment?

 

You know we both love your feedback 😊

Peace 

Indigo 

Lion​(dom male){Hazel Eyes} - Its very damn important not to go to far in a punishment. First the dominant is going against his subs limit, or his own set of moral rules so to speak, pain is fine until it's abuse. Think oh cute red ass or severe bruises, there's a line that's up to the dominant but shouldn't be crossed. I totally understand his being upset, in a way you lied it made him feel bad. Honesty is the best policy, that's how the saying goes. This is just my opinion, I have my own rules and ways my lioness is to communicate when something goes to far in a session. Big hug to you both.
3 years ago
Indigolover{Beast} - Thank you Sir for your honest feedback. He made me understand that I must tell him at all times if he goes to far. I never meant to hurt him by not telling him. I MUST communicate!!
3 years ago
forgedbyfire - Might this be a situation where you renegotiate YOUR limits? The way I read your words, it seemed that you enjoyed his primal pleasure with your body -- that you were aroused/delighted by serving him by allowing him to have his way. Is ANY pain on your part a HARD limit for Beast?
3 years ago
Indigolover{Beast} - We have talked about hard limits, but I was pushing through the pain because I know he was enjoying himself. He told me never to do that again. My feelings and comfort is very important to him.
3 years ago
forgedbyfire - Ah. I get it now. You are a trooper!
3 years ago

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