The deep thoughts of my mind.

Read blog name.

I honestly don't get it. What is it that I'm doing wrong here? Here's my problem, I put myself out there all over the place, as honest as can be and it's like I'm in a perpetual cycle of getting my hopes up just to be slapped with rejection everywhere I go.

Is it because of my profession?

Is it my looks, my weight or my hight?

I know I don't smell bad..

What the hell am I doing wrong?

I'm polite

I'm gentle

I'm respectful

I'm clean

I take pretty good care of myself

What the fuck.. what to I gotta do to actually be happy? Do I just treat everyone like shit? Is that how this works? I've been steadily watching everyone I grew up with, went to school with, exs and friends all be happy and have wives and children. What the fuck am I doing wrong?

I hate societal standards.

Bunnie - I agree, you are beautiful. You have a depth to you, and an unusual (in a great way) mind… which unfortunately means that you can’t settle for anything less than what will bring you fulfilment, and also makes finding a right fit, trickier than perhaps if you simply had a “general” mindset. Hang in there, friend. When you find the right fit, it will be magic :)

2 years ago

SirTOuTOO{~ 2u2 ~} - .
- Women ( subs or not ) - smell/sense/feel your 'hunger'. ( read - neediness )
- Most of those 'on offer' KNOW,... that for every female 'available',... there will be 5-10 guys, chasing after 'her'.
- Any woman, can get LAID whenever she wants. (the complete opposite for guys)
- You can't CATCH a woman by chasing her,... that's her modus-operandi.
- YOU can only be Dominant to a woman who ALREADY thinks you have something MORE to offer than the other 8-guys she can screw, OR,... when she needs a (financial bailout) security blanket. ( o.e when she reaches 28-38yrs+plus+ ....the older she is, the more she - generally - needs such a 'bail-out' and will become more 'submissive' to catch you,... while all along SHE is in control. - LOL )
- Be content with yourself,... your life, your status. (If they - women - don't see what they NEED in you,... You ain't getting anything.
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2 years ago

Sunshinegirl(sub female) - You seem like a cool guy. Here’s some tips, take it or leave it.

- You have pretty eyes and a good facial structure but it’s all hidden under or distracted by the facial hair/head hair. Trimming and keeping things neat are sexy.
- Get rid of the meme about the overweight guy and the shirt. I get it you’re trying to be funny, but it gives off trashy vibes.
- Absolutely nobody ever looks good in selfies taken from below. Delete those and replace them with other selfies or just delete them period. Also, there’s ice cream in your beard in one of the pics. I’d delete that.
- Have you tried meeting people at local munches or get together’s? (Fetlife?) Online dating can kinda suck and so much of your personality and vibe are lost that way.
Best of luck to you 😄

2 years ago

fatbear(dom male) - finally, some honesty. thank you.

2 years ago

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The deep thoughts of my mind.

Am I doing something wrong?

fatbear(dom male)