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Aspects of Domination/submission My opinions

My thoughts on the idea of domination/submission based on what I see and read on this site and my own experience
4 years ago. August 24, 2020 at 4:44 PM

Before starting I should say that I am only talking about women who are submitting online.  To begin with in a hypothetical D/s world a female sub should not be dressed.   Being naked is a symbol of submission. Historically slaves were often kept naked.  Having both lower orifices exposed means that she is available for sexual use.   Bare skin, especially her ass, is the traditional target for the paddle and the whip.  As an online Dom I have often had a submissive who lived alone spend some time naked.   Making her do work around the house adds just a mental tinge of being a slave.  However in an online dynamic this is not always possible.  Her privacy may be limited.    One substitute is a kind of symbolic nudity for females. That is to say "no panties"     Her pussy and rear orifice are bare and so is her ass. The rubbing of her clothes provides a constant reminder of her obedience to the restrictions of her Dom. There may even be some sexual stimulation, which relates to another topic, orgasm control.    So when and where should wearing panties be restricted?    Certainly at home it can often be done.    Out of the house?   In the office?    Risky certainly in some cases.   If she submits to going bare, the best place to send her is somewhere where other people are around.   That focuses her mind on the secret she shares with her Dom.   ( In these uncertain times, the only safe place is a street with a mask on)

raiseaneyebrow - I think panties work as an excellent metaphor in online scenarios. It’s a token to pass virtually. So I prefer to use their removal as a demonstration of control and desire.
4 years ago
alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } - Yes I know you said * in a hypothetical *

"To begin with in a hypothetical D/s world a female sub should not be dressed.   Being naked is a symbol of submission."

But my question is why is this , did I miss that day of school when they spoke on that chapter. ???

And seriously are panties really that big of a deal? To wear or not, as the only way to show submission? Why not choosing the color for the day or which pair ( if talking strictly online task pictures to be send of x number of pairs by a certain time. When the "dom" receives he/she chooses and tells which. Then the next day or that day which ever fits the time line . The " dom" can randoming require a photo of sub showing them.

And there are so may ways to show submission even online.
2 years ago
trainerforsubs - I agree that there are so many ways to show submission. It is just one of my favorites. It is a little sexual because the sub is aware that her pussy and ass are exposed, especially with a skirt or dress. It is intense enough to cause refusal in a few cases
2 years ago

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