I’ve chatted with a fair number of new and experienced subs on here and always curious how one’s time on this site has been and it always seems to be mixed.
I’ve heard good things with meeting and chatting with potential Doms to those that are rude out of the gate demanding a sub to give in and do something they ask to telling a sub that if they want to learn they’re the person to work with and that said sub should pay for their services.
It seems to be mixed but to hear about so many bad experiences seems to fuel the idea no communication is needed and that just jumping into the deep end and doing as one’s told is the way to go.
Well……… this can’t be any further from the truth!
Though geared towards those new to BDSM, D/s, online and IRL play you should still be treated with respect! It’s one thing to create a bond with someone and earn respect and trust between one another to then be Dom or sub to one another but communicating and respecting one another is still needed.
If shy about your interests at least be open and secure with yourself to either ignore bad behaviour that does not appeal to you or basically tell them to piss off.
For someone to demand anything without chatting and at least some sort of hello message seems to to just be inappropriate.
Be safe, respectful and enjoy yourself.
This is just my $0.02 and just my own opinion, nothing in stone!
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