3 years ago. Monday, March 21, 2022 at 10:14 PM
When is degrading and humiliating a sub ok? Well, this is a subs decision. If it’s not their thing then it should be something a Dom should NOT put pressure on. Some like it and some don’t. Simple as that!
For those that are into degrading and humiliating acts I feel this should only be done when with someone they truly trust. Depending on the situation a sub may soon after need to be cared for and re assured that they are safe and have your hand to hold if needed.
Such acts are meant to be rewarding for both parties but it takes A LOT more strength for a sub than it does a Dom.
Aftercare is not a reward, it should be a requirement from a Dom.
As per usual just my $0.02 for what it’s worth!