Musings from the dragons heart

Some places I have shared with the special one.

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It was the eyes,

The first contact,

They captivate you, hold you, caress you, control you,

They are the highway to your soul, your inner most beauty.

Eyes that can show the truth and see through the lies, they are vivid, knowledgeable, and full of wisdom,

But still intriguing, what more is there to find.

Eyes that seek and want to be sought, you try but you can't look away.

They reflect the happiness, the sorrow, the grief, shared and individual experiences.

Windows to your soul.

They reflect and absorb you as an individual not an object.

Eyes that say thank you, love you, I am disappointed.

They can make you smile, make you cry.

Eyes can make your inner most feelings cry out for more, or less.

They say so much with no words.

I love eyes,

Do you?

You make plans and fail, my plan to write more has taken a back seat in life. But then again I think a scripted life can lead to disappointment, spontaneous behaviour can lead to excitement - the unpredictability gives it the spark, this can be from the D/s point of view. 

I have had many years of disappointment, sickness, death and loss lead the way, my long term partner of 30 plus years died - and although I was repressed during that time I invested in the relationship and gave my full emotions to it, in retrospect people watched from the outside and I did not listen to them. They saw what I was too blinkered to see.

For over 12 months I have been living and enjoying life living with my submissive and partner, I am not perfect and challenge all Dom's to acknowledge that they are not perfect, despite what is written on their profile. As a Dom I also feel that sometimes I am not good enough for my submissive - but that is my own psyche my feelings of fallibility, perhaps brought on by previous relationships. 

So out there somewhere is some one for you, it takes time and patience with a healthy dose of honesty. There will always those who look for a quick fix but there are also those who are looking for that long term relationship. To invest in that takes time a long time with a foundation of honesty leading the way. Remember even when you have found the special one you will always continue to grow, develop and learn.

Some thoughts:

• No matter how good a Dom you are you will a least once lead a whinging demon submissive from a public place.
• When your submissive ruins your day then act like they did not ruin your day, then ask why you're in a bad mood.
• A littlie: A face of a baby, the attitude of a teen girl and the ability to go from an angel to screaming banshee in 2.7 seconds.
• Silence is golden but with a submissive it can be suspicious.

 

 

A girl wanted a motorcycle real bad
So she borrowed the money from dad
She passed a pet shop
A monkey was bought
But it took all the money she had!

With fur on the floor everywhere
To the girl it just didn't seem fair
She called her pop
To say, "Guess what?"
"My monkey is losing it's hair!"

He told her he didn't have a clue
But to believe that it was true
Not to hesitate
Before it's too late
Sell the motorcycle is what she should do!

I love the whimpers,

the little gasps,

the look in your eye,

and the sound of the spank,

a crack, a slap, an audible sign,

of your affection to me,

Your mischievous look,

Your knowing smile,

the feel of your hair,

your eyes in the morning,

 your care,

I never has experienced,

the adoration, the true love,

the affection - your gift to me,

though years we lost,

we now have found,

a bond to last 

Well one upon a time....

There once was a lonely Dragon who had been repressed for many a year, and depressed due to pain and loss. He then met a wandering soul they emailed, they talked, they met and they liked, they fell in love and moved in together and lived happily ever after...except for the sore buttocks when she misbehaved everyday. The rest is the future history.

The end, the beginning....

The mouth of an insta is a fool. yet the mouth of a true Dom is their heart.

If we all were going to die in a few moments and you could phone your love what would you say....and why are you waiting for that crisis.

Death is a challenge....

It tells us not to waste time,

It tells us to tell each other right now that we love each other.  Leo F. Buscaglia

There is a land of living and a land of those gone, but there is also a bridge and that is called love.

Living not far from the coast many times I hear interesting stories:

A child got into difficulty, swept out to sea on a rip, a life guard sprang in to action and saved the young child, 'thank you for saving my life', the child said. 'That's ok kid', was the response from the life guard, 'just make sure your life was worth saving', they added.

During the pandemic many people have gone above and beyond both paid and unpaid, I just hope that those touched by these people give thanks and give back to society making it a better place for all.

I am lucky to have a wonder submissive who plays up for attention, and I gladly give it. The sound of impact to me is wonderful, you can tell by the feel and noise as your hand makes contact how good it was, the crisp, sharp crack and the little gasp or whimper, simply makes me smile

Love cures people, those who give and those who receive. Dr Karl Menninger.

A submissive will not remember all the material things you give them, however will cherish the feelings you create as a couple. Floradragon

In every experience you gain confidence, strength and skills, especially if it is something you have never tried before and have fear in it. Floradragon

A stinging hand equals a sore buttock.....Floradragon

Well, and not a lot of people know this about me, I spent 12 months nursing my wife of 30 years of Cancer - good days but more often bad days, she then succumbed to the illness and died 2 years ago, (last week). This was also after 3 years of turmoil as major issues caused major heart ache in the family (smashed bones, deaths abroad), each new year we committed that the next would be better...then Covid, my late wife was a registered nurse and I am glad that she did not have to live through it - as a nurse she would have been torn between wanting to work and the disease that was wracking her body.

Although I have only touched on the issues that occurred in my family group - and some people would have slipped into depression possible gone down the alcohol/drugs route, legal and illegal. I decided not to let the world continue to hold me down and after a period of time like a butterfly I emerged form my cocoon. My self reflection, (I tend to do that a lot), I realised who and where I was on my life journey - I acknowledged that for 30 years I have been repressed as my dominant character, (some may have called it a form of domestic/emotional abuse), I have 'failed' to live up to my parents hope of me becoming a professional sportsperson, (I had my chances but remained loyal).

All these knock backs have led me to who I am today, they have given my empathy, respect of others and love to give. Yes I can look back and imagine I could have done something different - but that will not change anything. I am happy and secure in my knowledge now that I am a gentleman Dom, a name I find amusing as I simply see me as Floradragon, the gentleman Dom has been used to describe me by a people, (I can hear roaming wild growling). I love the banter with other people and relish the 'discussions' with instas - mind you they normally block me.

So

Life will go on,  you can let it bring you down or you can grab it and run with it. I sincerely hope you grab it and run with it - I am sure in the near future you will be fulfilled.

All the best.

Floradragon

Being a Dom is to devote yourself body and soul, physically and mentally to a person, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year - for a lifetime, to the welfare of an individual only for their major response is to act bratty to you.....

FD

When you are making a list of life's great joys.....make sure you write down the moment your submissive smiles at you....

FD

'Although the world is full of suffering, it is also full over overcoming'.

Hellen Keller

Participate with you submissive in all they do, show them that what they do is important that will develop their skills and confidence. 

FD

'The journey in between what you one were and who you are now becoming is where the dance of life begins'.

Barbara De Angelis

In all a submissive's life their will be high points, and these are brought on and encouraged by their Doms (Dommes).

FD