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PMS

4 years ago. April 23, 2020 at 4:03 PM

Something I wish to personally experience... A man empathetic to where women are in their cycles.

Maybe this is a short coming of my surroundings. It definitely could be that it's too outside men's realm of their understanding. After all, they aren't force to bleed once a month.

I want to add that I know the hormonal fluctuations and emotional rollercoasters are definitely tiresome and annoying. Putting up with what can sometimes seem like two different women every single month, must be exhausting. I can't imagine how stressful it is to wonder when the flood gates will open and unleash the less pretty aside of your wife/significant other/friend.

That being said:

I'd like to be cuddled when I'm emotional. Comforted when I'm feeling depressed, for no reason other than, hormones. It would be so nice to be reassured that I'm okay, normal even, and supported. Sometimes, it's nice to cry/vent/rage for no other reason than you literally can't help it in a safe and loving environment.

(This has been my rant)

*Time for some salty fries and chocolate*

Jack in the box -
I used to say "when do I get MY pms??"
Divorced now . . . . 🤔
4 years ago
Jack in the box -
Not making light of the subject
It takes patience and understanding
4 years ago
Devil's damsel​(sub female){HandsomeDe} - It’s funny you say that because I’ve always been a firm believer that men have cycles of a sort as well. My ex husband used to go all PMS-y around the same time every month. He hated when I pointed it out, which of course I did every month 😂
4 years ago
Sunshinegirl​(sub female) - Every female is different, but going on birth control has significantly helped me not be a crazy bitch every month. The medication somehow suppresses (most of) those crazy hormones. Maybe something to look into?
4 years ago
Sammi Babi UwU​(sub female) - The only issue with b/c is I have zero sex drive, or I totally would.
4 years ago
Devil's damsel​(sub female){HandsomeDe} - My version of PMS is withdrawing into myself. Every man in my life (except my ex husband) knew when it was coming on just because I’d go from being smiley and talkative to sitting quietly and staying to myself. My Daddy always knows and he’s just the sweetest when it’s my time. He takes great care of me. They do exist 😊
4 years ago
Sensual City Girl{ForeverHIS} - Hormones are EVIL!! My daddy is so wonderful when it comes to this. In the beginning when I happened to mention my symptoms, right away He recommended I go on vitamin supplements and they have helped drastically (which I just remembered I need to take today 🤦🏻‍♀️). It even helped with the pain. But, orgasms are my one true cure. 🤭
4 years ago
Lion​(dom male){Hazel Eyes} - One of the reasons why a lot of men don't have a clue is they weren't educated on the subject. Thankfully I had a mother who would explain in detail any subject you asked, learned real quick not to ask certain questions but she made sure I was well aware of this and many other things that involved life with a woman. Being in several relationships helps further understand that every woman is different in regards to that time of the month. Big hug to all that suffer with it. 💖
4 years ago

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