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A blog made to encompass my thoughts, feelings, experiences, and friendly posts.
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1 year ago. April 24, 2023 at 6:49 PM

Just hopped back in for a moment, hoping to see some necessary changes to the site... Unfortunately not.
I don't feel comfortable using a site that assigns pronouns and seemingly gendered ideology onto their users, and I can't comprehend how programming in pronouns can take years.


Kink and the places made for kinksters continues to be regressive and unwelcoming.

Max Heathen​(other male) - What pronouns did the site assign to you? There is no "He, She, It, They, etc" pronouns used unless you place it in your username and or nickname. Perhaps your so guarded that you're taking your anger out on a site that is better than most in the realm of BDSM.?
1 year ago
spankmysass​(sub gender queer){Yes} - Here's a link of a screenshot of my profile, showing where pronouns are used:

https://i.imgur.com/3Htimgw.jpg

Literally says "her profile".

I find it rather interesting (and telling) that
A) you see being guarded in a negative light. Not being guarded gets queer people hurt or even k*lled.
B) see me sat I'm disappointed and it translates to you that I'm angry.

Finally, I didn't comment about any other aspect of the site. I didn't say it was a bad site, had bad users, etc. I was and still am talking about one issue.
It's my opinion that if you or others can't make valid complaints or criticisms about something you use/like/support, then there's an unhealthy mindset or attachment there. I'm not upset that you've enjoyed this site, but you felt the need to tell me I'm wrong and angry when neither is true.

Good day!
1 year ago

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