Mutterings from the dark side

What is seduction? Is it roses in poetry, is it soft sensual massages, or is it grabbing the girl by her hair dragging her across the Room throwing over the counter and taken what you want? The answer is dear readers... Yes it's all of it. What is seduction to one person May not be seduction to another person we have to take time and effort to learn the person's mind find out what it is the enjoy what it is that makes them want to submit .It's easy to f*** it's a basic mechanical function the d*** goes in the d*** goes out basic mechanics as I said. To truly get your submissive eager to please and serve you must 1st seduced their mind by doing that the clothes fall off their arouser goes up and they can't wait to please you at the risk of sounding redundant when you do that you have an Eager horny wanting s*** .Take time to learn the submissives mind did I like rough they like soft that are like dirty talk all this can be done by simple conversation listening or simply ask want to submit to get to know you they normally don't have a problem and telling you their likes and dislikes that can save a lot of hassle in the end as well as let you know if you're a good match for that submissive .Now by no means much as sang walk up grab this missive drag them around by their hair and take what you want save that for later when they're ready again the submissive has the power by communication and listening observation these things will help you understand the person's mind do they Beethoven Or are they more of a 5 finger death punch kind of person.Never assume the person you're talking to has the same things that you do that can lead to bad timing and awkward situations don't be in a hurry as I said anybody can f*** but taking time to get to know the person will accentuate the experience and allow them to be more free with you and in the end that's what we want submissive derive pleasure from serving but let's face it they like to get all from sex too .While many times as the dominant it is about the power and doing what you want Taking your submissive into consideration and there turn on will allow for more mindnumbing experience .Again never assume always ask and talk listen learn we don't know at all-and there's lots of things we can learn and sometimes a submissive is truly the best teacher .I know continue this battle later however for now ponder on what I thought look at Submissive next to you and try talking to them for once instead of just trying to get your pants .