Mutterings from the dark side

It's funny how that little 4 word line from my profile gets so many comments and raised eyebrows. A "girl" should be pleasing to the eye as well as mind, and yes to my cock of course a girl has limits and that's always to be be respected so when push comes to play I will do with her as I want and lust hard and rough slow and deep how I so choose. SO if those 4 words offend you cool no harm no foul move on have a nice day. We are all here for our own kinks

We are currently drowning in a pumpkin spice latte PC bull shit world. We get Xmas decorations with the the Halloween candy. People say Happy Holidays. We have to be told that McDonald's 3 times a day may cause unwanted weight gain. And yes some people are so stupid they need to be told that. If you don't belive me read the warning label on a curling iron. I'll wait.........see?...Used to be a thing called manners and tact then once you knew the person blunt honesty. Hey I really think your attractive would you like to talk more...then hey let's fuck. 

Nope not anymore now we spend half the damn time wondering that the hell this means or that means.

Stand up my lovelies ask for real bacon (the pig is already dead he dun care) Demand real sugar. Say Merry Christmas. Tell some one they give you the hots.

Now back to your regularly scheduled madness

We got dommies, we got masters ,daddy girls and subbies.
An' we got puppies, we got trannies,
An' we got , pain sluts.
And the girls next door dress up like latex dolls.
Mm, mm, mm, mm, mm, I love this site.
We got newbies , we got truckers,
Broken hearted fools and suckers.
An' we got hustlers, we got fighters,
Early birds and all nighters.
And the veterans talk about their play room time:
Mm, mm, mm, mm, mm, I love this site.

I love this site,
It's my kind of place.
Just walk in through the front door,
Puts a big smile on my face.
It ain't too far, come as you are.
Mm, mm, mm, mm, mm, I love this site.

I've seen short skirts, we've got leather ,
Blue collar boys and rednecks.
An' we got lovers, lots of lookers,
An' I've even seen dancin' girls an masochism ,
And we like to drink our beer from a mason jar:
Mm, mm, mm, mm, mm, I love this site, yes I do!

I like my truck, (I like my truck),
An' I like my submissive , ( I like my submissive),
I like to take her out for bondage,
I like to flog her now and then

But I love this site,
It's my kind of place.
Just trolling around the main room,
Puts a big smile on my face.
No cover charge, come as you are.
Mm, mm, mm, mm, mm, I love this site.
Mm, mm, mm, mm, mm, I just love this ol' site.

1st let me give credit where credit is due this post is a carry on of an outstanding post that Silver did that being said .

Dominants read a d*** book! If you don't know the diffrance between a Dom a Master and A Daddy Dom look that shit up. I totaly got that we all have to start someplace at some time but you don't wake up on Tuesday and decied over Coco puffs that your a Master. And if your under 21 shut up and watch and learn. You are just learning what sex is and can barely control yourself much less a submissive that is trusting you with her everything. A true submissive/slave/ little takes YEARS to groom and train. Yet you want to come along with your X tube degree and expect to own one?...Not so much .

Submissive read above we all start someplace but know the basics know if you want a Master or a Daddy Dom ask questions learn who you are. But a word of advice never say "No limits" we all have them at the very least you should until you have screened  the Dom then screened him again. On the other side if you list one of your limits as "No anal" or something else that cuts off a part of your body for use baring medical reasons perhaps BDSM is not for you. A sub should be willing to offer every part if her body to pleasure her Dom.

Have a career have a hobbie sex is great but you need to be able to carry on a conversation 

Both should know how much time they can and will put into this. If it's only weekends cool but be honest with your self and your partner.

Well all start someplace but know your skill level.

STOP! Right now at this very moment stop what your doing. Take a minute play your favorite song. Sing loud maybe dance or not depending. Good now you did something just for you. Carry on.

Good morning my lovelies .Today let's talk about the rush .What do I mean by the rush you ask ?That's a very good question ,The rush is what ever thakes us to that place ,Anal ,Choking ,Slapping ,Rough ,Screams ,Begging ,Degradation ,Seeing her cry .And the list goes on and on the point is we all Have them and we're all looking to get them fulfilled I see this little Tess on profiles and wonder how many times people accurately take them how many times they can admit to themselves what they need in their deepest darkest .Can we look at ourselves and admit what gives is that rush what it is we truly need can we face ourselves and admit that what we need to truly hit that high and it off is against Everything we've known as proper .I think once we hit that point we truly do reach a kind of freedom just food for thought on a Friday morning now back to your regularly scheduled madness .

Hello my lovelies.

Wanted to pause to remind all of you no one is alone. This world of ours can be scary and confusing for both Dom and sub alike. When in doubt reach out. Contact me if you like I'll help where I can. If you don't like me or think I'm a basterd cool reach out to someone else. No one person has a right to control the knowledge. On that note emailing me how wet your pussy is and what should you do with it right out the gate....A) Really? B) I don't know take it and go wash my car.  

Back to your regularly scheduled madness

So today I paid a visit to the Room .And person a gave a condition for which they were in a relationship .Now person a has their own rules and guidelines for which they are in their relationship and it works for them it seems to work quite well .Now persons a's guidelines aren't what I'm writing about what I'm addressing you about my dear Lovelies Is tolerance I spoke about this earlier in a separate blog you can go back and read it if you want we are such a small tight knit community with so many different kinks and Turn on's That I find it sad that we turn on each other for a difference of opinion .What goes on in my bedroom is my business what goes on in your bedroom is your business but we all meet here for an exchange of ideas were not going to agree with all of them some of them we flat out will disagree with however remember that each one of us have feelings we have ideas we have dreams we have things that brought us here to meet to learn if you disagree with someone that's fine you have that right to disagree but none of us have the right to single person out and try and make them feel bad for decision they've made with their significant other if that's the case we're no better than the outside world in which we're trying to escape from remember dear readers we each have our own kinks they would make other people blush That being said remember it's safe sane consentual don't ostracize another person because what works for them is not what works for you .We now return to our regular scheduled madness 

Good morning my freaky darlings period 

Nothing overly deep this morning, just random thoughts that I've had over the Years .Summer thoughts of my own others are ones have heard from various comedians are just throughout life .

Does the Pope wear underwear? 

Who is reading the Braille at drive up ATM's?

Does the Pope have a batphone the God? 

Why is bra singular but breast plural?

What happens when sour cream goes bad, does it taste sweet? 

If you put Energizer batteries in backwards did they keep coming and coming and coming? 

We now return you to your regularly Scheduled madness .

Good afternoon dear readers. Over the past few days it seems the entire United States has lost his d*** mind pretty close to the world it seems. Somewhere along the lines I think people have forgotten there were people . All the madness on the outside world has made me turn inward looking at life amongst our community And I think sometimes we all need to take a step back-and chill the h*** out. We get so wrapped-up into it our version were our view of bdsm is we forget there are other views whether you're a Dommie or a Dom A submissive transgender gender neutral Sissy lesbian homosexual. What all brings us together is a basic View of BDSM.None of us know-it-all I've been in the lifestyle for almost 20 years now and I'm still learning every day. We can all learn from each-other's point of view if we're willing to open our minds and listen. Or we closer minds off and become like the very people do we have to avoid because of our choices the choices that you dear readers the remembers stagnant water eventually evaporates and disappears .