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2 years ago. April 11, 2022 at 6:16 PM

I am so angry that I have been motivated to post this today.  However, I am no pushover. I am a (nearly) 50 year old woman and I have my life experience to back this up.

 

It often appears that some men or women think it’s ok to attempt to coerce another person to do something they are not comfortable with by using nasty threats of either violence or ostracisation. 

However, did you know that there is something called positive coercion, which takes the form of attempting to get said person to share private information in order to achieve a sexual activity. 

You are so pretty, please can we Skype?

I bet you have a sexy voice, please can we have a phone call? 

I get bored with texting, I’m much better on the phone.

At first I politely said no and explained why, but the request came again with the promise of sexual enjoyment. My answer is still no. I’m not giving my number or Skype ID to anyone I have do not know and trust because you don’t want to pretend by text to fuck my wet pussy hard! 

When I say no, I mean NO. I don’t mean please try to persuade me.  Don’t tell me if I don’t enjoy it I can simply block you. I said NO! I should not ever feel the need to block anyone after thinking it was ok to share my personal information

Is that quite clear?

 

Because of this, I will never be tempted or feel able to continue any kind of interaction with you.

Again, I ask, Is that crystal clear?

Good!

 

Move along please, nothing more to see here!

 

*FUMES*

 

 

ribbonbaby​(sub female){Guarded} - 🙂 Thank you for explaining that. I did not know what that was called 🤔
2 years ago
Naya - My absolute pleasure xxx
2 years ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){âš“ } - No means no, not maybe and trust is EARNED, not forced. Always go with your intuition. If someone doesn't respect that then they're already showing who they are.. *hugz* 🌹
2 years ago
Naya - Yes, dishonest and untrustworthy!
2 years ago
Naya - Thing is, I am savvy about these things after one or two brushes with such types. Who knows what an inexperienced eager individual could end up involved in or traumatised by such behaviour. It really is not ok.

Even now I am getting messages trying to persuade me, telling me I am 'no better than the other women' here.

WTAF! Rest assured the profile in question is reported!


2 years ago
Jack in the box -
You may already know this - skype gives your location
2 years ago
Naya - Exactly why I refused to give out my details! Thank you, anyone who reads this will now know that. I was so mad writing this blog I didnt even think to say that.

xx
2 years ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male){CurvyB} - I sure agree. No means no.
2 years ago
AdamDragon​(dom male) - You did the right thing by bringing this up here. Well done!
2 years ago
Naya - Thank you for saying that.
2 years ago

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