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K y i v - Best Post ever!

Lexxa​(sub female) - THANK YOU. Lol. I notice many that have been posting misconstrued allegations are also older individuals and it blows my mind. Preach on! 🙌🙌🙌

Litlegrl​(sub female){Dragon11} - Thank you

ShieMarie - Whoa whoa whoa. I think I kinda get what you're saying, but I also feel like the post is a bit restrictive. Particularly in this framing:

"Unless your hooking up real-time and having a relationship off line, No one is cheating on anyone here,"
****But aren't all relationships valid? The exclusivity of being together IRT or physically shouldn't be the only defining aspect of a relationship. I also use relationship, because I'm talking in general here, and think this is the and for friendships, etc.

"And the fact people are blogging about it , makes me believe we are in kindergarten,"
****The expression of one's feelings shouldn't be attributed to young people's oppression. This is to say, when a child is feeling a certain way about something, it is healthy for them to let out all of their emotions. By telling a child to "hush/ stop crying/ cut it out /etc" one engages in young people's oppression. By saying an adult reminds you of kindergarten, is equally an oppression of their emotions and an insult to their very valid feelings.

"Please people we are all ADULTS, lets write about out kinks and dreams etc and not about what she did or he did you whoever"
****I kinda get this part. I do, because this is The Cage, and there's practically a clearly defined community here... One that is particularly interested in kinks and dreams. Lol you know I love you Radiance! This part, you are absolutely right to *suggest* what others write about. But honestly, we can keep scrolling without trying to enforce writing restrictions on folks. Someone told me to blog so that others get to know who I am. Blogs are kinda neat in that way, that we can get a glimpse of someone's character. If they're one to constantly express heartbreak, then maybe that's not appealing for some of us. But maybe there's someone out there that has gone their the same thing, or someone who has savior mentality and genuinely loves the helplessness. Idk. But I'm just not a fan of restrictions unless it is really significantly demeaning another's character in a way that they haven't consented to.

Thanks for reading my rant. ❤️✨

ShieMarie - *this is the same for friendships
*has gone through the same thing
-just a few typos 😝🤗

ShieMarie - I feel like I should say an "on the other hand"... Which is that I have seen some craziness and venting in the form of personal attacks and pointing fingers that I wasn't particularly fond of. And just like the last line of my previous response... Attacking someone or demeaning their character is just not acceptable. I definitely think there's a line between healthy self expression and personally attacking someone... The latter of which I strongly believe is not the purpose of a blog. But eh, I digress.

Sorry for all the reading. ❤️✨

Bishop​(dom male) - YES!!! Very good.

T slave​(sub female){Owned} - i vacillate here! As much as i agree that some take to blogs to badger and are disrespectful it is their right as long as they and their content follow the rules set forth by The Cage administration. That being said i also have a choice! To read and respond or not! They are just opinions after all and we all know what they say about opinions! Peace!

Bunnie - It’s certainly made my reading list a lot smaller lol. It’s just so cliché and boring. I want to share in other people’s journeys and experiences and thoughts on this amazing lifestyle we share... not gossip and drama.

HisRedd{Self} - What?! There has been drama in the blogs, hmm I haven’t noticed. Maybe because I stopped reading, sigh! Yes Radi, I am right there with you on this. Sadly many will not read this...