Since joining here I've met a few subs(coughs) so they say and after chatting for a few months decided that they could be Dom's,now here's the punch line there married to vanillas for years, so how does one change when still in a vanilla relationship ,Fuck if I know but I am sick of wannabes ,if your not wANTING this lifestyle, Don't join, I am not here for wanking men ,I have Dommed 40 years and am sick of married men here just wanting to wank off,you've got hands do it yourself..