Hope everyone is having a good Labor Day in the US. One of My few days off work. I decided to open My cage messages. Woah!!! wow!!
I am an Elder in the lifestyle.
apparently.
ugh.
I really do despise ageist shit but I get it. I have been doing things in the lifestyle since I was of the majority of age. When I meet ppl either in person or online, My first statement is “Hi, Im Tara, its My pleasure to meet you” or some such similarly well mannered statement. I KNOW W/we are on The Cage. yes-its a lifestyle site. BUT-when you send a message, its about being a person first. I am a emotion based individual. I must have the connection and chemistry with a person before doing ANY of the dynamic things.
As a High Protocol Domme, I expect the following:
1) introduce yourself politely
2) be interested in what I am saying/doing/showing
3) convey that interest in a thoughtful well written manner
4) dont wave your parts in front of My face, especially your dick.
5) My style of Dominance is about BDSM. not about sex.
6) I am not interested in anything gentle, mommy, or long distance
7) use My correct honorific if choosing to title Me, otherwise My name is Tara
8) dont insult My intelligence by asking Me to reconsider any rule I might have in place.
DO:
1) ask questions about: the lifestyle, implements I am using, a particular scene I have done.
I hope that this can serve as a guide to the numerous ppl reaching out. I want to get to know you as ppl first. kinks come secondary!
