I've been chatting with my Vanilla X wife.
I'm astonished at the level of neglect that a couple can achieve. Married 25 years and we've learned more about each other after we split.
She suspected for a few years that my tastes in many aspects of life are divergent from acceptable norms.
When the dog got on the bed while I was railing her, and it put its cold nose on her spincter I laughed and said I felt left out. It was just another day for me. She was devastated and ashamed
Our discussions have recently evolved around the unfulfilled desires of our past.
We are still the most trusted friends that each of us have ever had.
When our problem solving turned to the sexuality that we each crave now, I confessed that what we had wasn't what I truelly needed.
She informed me that she has expanded her interest in in the kinkier side of life.
Now we exchange ideas, what's the reaction to what we are thinking of.
