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6 years ago. September 11, 2017 at 9:01 PM

Once again, we were sitting, shooting the shit and drinking beer. 

 

As usual, the conversation wandered to sex. 

 

We we were discussing likes and dislikes, and the communications involved. 

 

We were in a sorry situation where she was shy and I was bold. Her situation was obvious, mine was a bit outlandish. Yes, I communicated, but my approach was out of line. 

 

I knew my desires, but was over bearing. 

 

As we chat, she's regretting not listening and I'm regretting my impatience. 

 

Now we talk about desires as reasoning adults. She also borrows toys from me. A day late and a dollar short. 

 

25 years of marriage wasted. 

Velvetdreams​(sub female) - So sorry, Sir. I can relate! Now, I get it... I need a Dom, not another sub...
6 years ago
OlsUSNavy{None} - It’s important that you know what you want and more important, what you need.

I’m not sure why you replied, but I’m happy to help you find out.
6 years ago
Velvetdreams​(sub female) - I replied, Sir, simply because I, too, spent a big chunk of my life with a man more submissive than me, lol and that's saying something. It has taken me another decade to redefine who I am and begin to grasp what I want/need. Currently, I'm in the "vetting" process, getting acquainted with a good Man/Dom. Hopeful that we will meet each other's needs.
Some days, it is hard to reconcile the lost years, yes? But ever hopeful, we move forward.
A friend ?
6 years ago
OlsUSNavy{None} - I understand the feeling of wasted time in relationships. However, those expieriences define us.

A relationship between us may be impossible. I have no idea where you are.
6 years ago

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