BDSM Event Calendar

BDSM for Beginners (Level 1)

An introduction to the magical world of BDSM from the comfort of your own home.

Berlin Uncensored Tour: A History of Sex & Freedom

Step Into Berlin’s Untold History of Sex & Desire—A Walking Tour with Immersive Multimedia

Connecting Deeper - Kink für Paare

Ein Kink-Tag der euch durch spielerische und tiefgehende Praktiken führt, die eure Verbindung, Kommunikation und Vertrauen stärkt!

BDSM for Beginners - LEVEL 2 (Scene Play)

Be expertly guided in BDSM scene play from the comfort of your home. Bring a partner or pick up skills for later play!

The Psychology of Fetish and Kink with Lindsay Dukes

Discover what factors can drive fetish and kink behaviours, and practical steps to communicate your desires for pleasure. Followed by Q+A.

After Dark Workshop: Introduction to Shibari – Japanese Rope Bondage

Starting from the most fundamental components, this Shibari Workshop requires no previous experience or knowledge.

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Medusa Heu

The Object of My Affection or Aggression - Playing with Objectification/Use

Learn all about Objectification play with Hirondellee

Start/Continue Your Rope Journey in Memphis!-Bunny Tie

In this class we’ll be going over the bunny tie, a restrictive tie involving arms overhead, and how to make it more restrictive than just the basics. Since we'll be using utilizing ropes for this class, we will also be going over how to join ropes again. If you don't know already, you'll learn today!
Contact: LovelyDarkness​(other female)

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DEBASEMENT JUNE 21 2025

It's DAVIDÉ's BIRTHDAY EDITION! Let's get K!NK! this SUMMER SOLSTICE night!!

Dominant by Design: Crafting Power with Purpose

Level up your knowledge and skills at our Dominant by Design: Seminar - it's gonna be a game-changer if you identify or aspire as a Dom(me)

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Medusa Heu

Designing Desire: Mastering Scene Creation in Kink and BDSM

Learn how to set the perfect scene for your kink and BDSM desires at Designing Desire: Mastering Scene Creation in Kink and BDSM!

Online Contest: Who’s the Best Pet? - A Public Display of Devotion

A BDSM obedience contest for pets, subs & service playthings. Complete tasks, earn praise, and compete to be crowned the Academy’s best pet.
Contact: BigChampion​(dom female)

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BigChampion​(dom female)

Intro To Flogging (With James from SAPAH)

Get ready to dive into the thrilling world of flogging with Handler James from SA-PAH! Don't miss out on this impactful adventure!

Start/Continue Your Rope Journey in Memphis!-Hishi Chest Harness

In this class we will be introducing you to a hihi (diamond) chest harness. This tie creates a functional, structured harness that also forms a beautiful diamond pattern across the torso. We will be introducing 2 new frictions with this pattern, the half moon friction and the L friction..
Contact: LovelyDarkness​(other female)

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Wasteland Summerfest

The post-apocalyptic festival edition of Wasteland
Contact: Wasteland​(other agender)

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UntriedAndCurious

Conscious Kink 101 - Consent & Boundaries

Learn the fundamental skills of conscious kink - consent & boundaries - and step into an exciting and empowered erotic life.

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Medusa Heu

SOMATIC BDSM

Beyond Technique—Embody Power, Surrender with Depth, and Master the Energetic Dance of BDSM.
Contact: Lucia Gabriela

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Start/Continue Your Rope Journey in Memphis!-Futomomo

Today we’re teaching a futomomo, Japanese for “thigh.” In this class we’ll be going over a basic futomomo and also introducing a new friction we haven’t shown in classes yet, the X friction. The pattern isn’t a difficult one but it does incorporate some rope handling that could be a bit newer for people, so not only will we be showing the pattern, we’ll also help you with the handling. These skills will help you with future ties as well.
Contact: LovelyDarkness​(other female)

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C.A.K.E (Consent And Kink Education) Workshop

CAKE is designed for those who are new or novices to kink, or as a refresher for those more experienced to learn about Consent and Safety.

SHAMAINC KINK IMMERSION: Midsummer Mysteries

7-day, full-body, full-spirit journey into the transformative power of B D.S M as a healing and ritual practice.
Contact: Reflector​(switch female)

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Reflector​(switch female)

Start/Continue Your Rope Journey in Memphis!-Agura

Today we’re teaching a version of the agura tie, Japanese for “cross legged.” This tie incorporates 2 futomomos, the tie we did in the first class in February, all connected to a waist line. This tie is a bit more involved so having the experience from the futomomo class will definitely help you, though we won’t make it a prerequisite.
Contact: LovelyDarkness​(other female)

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The 2025 Boundless Retreat

The 2025 Boundless Retreat The Boundless Retreat is a four day / three night intimate kinky camping event that is held annually at a beautiful, secluded resort just a few hours North of San Francisco. The event brings together people and experiences from every corner of the kink world. Boundless embraces those who are new and curious, and those who may already be wise and experienced. An Adventure Awaits You The Boundless Retreat is a kink centered camping event that creates an amazing space for exploration in a beautiful natural setting. The Boundless Retreat is an ever-evolving event where we work to foster a culture of consent, and to bring the entire spectrum of kink and sexuality together so that you can Relax, Play, and Bond with one another. Imagine a place where you can be truly free to explore whatever your heart desires. We have created a space where you can be boundless and explore your kinks, your sexuality, and feel welcomed and empowered to be your most authentic self.
Contact: Boundless Events​(other agender)

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Boundless Events​(other agender)

Kink Emergencies Workshop KinkCon

Have you ever had a Kink Emergency?

Uh oh: responding to missteps, triggers and consent accidents KinkCon

Discusses practical strategies for repair following the unpredictable mistakes that can occur as part of scenes

Kanna ryu - Floor predicaments

Looking into creating ties and scenes in Kanna ryu from intention to sensations.

Electro Play Workshop KinkCon

There’s never been a safer and easier way to indulge in Electro Play!

POWERPLAY 101: Intro to Dom/Sub/Switch dynamicsW/ Miss Yaz

Exploring power exchange within and beyond the BDSM context & insights into the psychological aspects of BDSM & Kink.

Start/Continue Your Rope Journey in Memphis!-Arms-In-Front Harness

Today’s class we will learn how to restrain the upper half of the body with the arms held close to the chest, in front of the torso. This is a cozy and restrictive tie.
Contact: LovelyDarkness​(other female)

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Start/Continue Your Rope Journey in Memphis!-Mermaid Tie/Leg Binder

Today’s class we will learn how to restrain the lower half of the body in a mermaid tie. Functional, aesthetic, restrictive, sexy…all valid descriptors of what we’ll create tonight.
Contact: LovelyDarkness​(other female)

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Start/Continue Your Rope Journey in Memphis!-Hip Harnesses

Today’s class we will be working on hip harnesses. We will be covering 2-3 hip harnesses tonight, time permitting. Hip harnesses have multiple functions in shibari and we’ll be covering those.
Contact: LovelyDarkness​(other female)

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'Ms to Mistress: Learn to be a dominatrix' Party

Domme 101: A practical introduction to the world of consensual BDSM

Start/Continue Your Rope Journey in Memphis!-How To Incorporate the Arms Into Any Chest Harness

Have you ever wondered what to do with someone's hands after you've tied them into a chest harness? This class will show you a variety of ways to incorporate their hands into any chest harness, in a variety of different positions!
Contact: LovelyDarkness​(other female)

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Wasteland Berlin

Wasteland presents the “Berlin underground edition”. Positioned in the almost perfect “Zeitgeist” setting of the legendary KitKatClub.
Contact: Wasteland​(other agender)

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Start/Continue Your Rope Journey in Memphis!-Microbondage

Are you interested in learning how to incorporate small details that can intensify or change the vibes in your rope scenes? Perfect! Come join us tonight to learn some new tips, tricks, and ties.
Contact: LovelyDarkness​(other female)

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Start/Continue Your Rope Journey in Memphis!-CBT & Breast Bondage

For this class we're covering bondage involving breasts and balls. These sensitive areas are a lot of fun to tie and there are various ways to do it. We're going to cover a variety of ties to...enhance these areas and make them more sensitive, while doing it "safely."
Contact: LovelyDarkness​(other female)

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Start/Continue Your Rope Journey in Memphis!-Tying to Bamboo

Bamboo (or any sturdy pole/stick) can add another layer of restriction to your rope bondage. In this class we will go over how to secure various body parts to bamboo and how to creatively use this element to change the shapes you can bind someone in! We will also discuss where to source bamboo, how to care for it, and alternatives you can also use.
Contact: LovelyDarkness​(other female)

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Start/Continue Your Rope Journey in Memphis!-Predicament Bondage

Predicament bondage refers to bondage that forces the bottom to choose between two different outcomes. This can be the choice between two different negative stimuli or choosing between no stimuli or a positive stimuli that's accompanied by a negative one. In this class we will show a few examples of predicaments you can tie someone in as well as encourage you to come up with some of your own!
Contact: LovelyDarkness​(other female)

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Start/Continue Your Rope Journey in Memphis!-Rope games, escape challenges, and more!

We will be closing out the last class of the year with some fun & games!!! We’ll be creating challenges for tops and bottoms which may spark some fun ideas for you to use in future scenes. Bottoms: here’s your chance to EEL out of the ropes and show your top they can’t hold you down! Tops: here’s your chance to show the bottom you’re really the boss!
Contact: LovelyDarkness​(other female)

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